{"id":9918,"date":"2019-10-06T10:44:23","date_gmt":"2019-10-06T10:44:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/?p=9918"},"modified":"2019-10-06T10:44:53","modified_gmt":"2019-10-06T10:44:53","slug":"3-buoc-don-gian-day-tre-cach-chao-hoi-ma-cha-me-can-phai-biet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/3-buoc-don-gian-day-tre-cach-chao-hoi-ma-cha-me-can-phai-biet.html","title":{"rendered":"3 b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb c\u00e1ch ch\u00e0o h\u1ecfi m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft"},"content":{"rendered":"

B\u1ea1n d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb c\u00e1ch ch\u00e0o h\u1ecfi<\/strong> th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? “Con ch\u00e0o \u00f4ng b\u00e0 \u0111i”, “Sao con ch\u01b0a ch\u00e0o b\u00e1c”… l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u m\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00f9ng khi con m\u00ecnh g\u1eb7p ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u00e0o h\u1ecfi, tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch x\u1eed l\u00fd kh\u00f4n ngoan theo chia s\u1ebb c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o Montessori v\u1ec1 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n nh\u1ecf, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 \u1edf l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i l\u00ean 3, th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u00f3i quen khi\u1ebfn b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t “m\u1ea5t m\u1eb7t”, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng ch\u00e0o h\u1ecfi khi g\u1eb7p ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn tu\u1ed5i… Ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 khi r\u01a1i v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y l\u00e0 th\u00fac gi\u1ee5c, g\u1ee3i \u00fd con “Con \u0111\u00e3 ch\u00e0o \u00f4ng\/b\u00e0 ch\u01b0a?<\/strong>“, “Con ch\u00e0o b\u00e1c \u0111i con!<\/strong>“…<\/p>\n

\"C\u00e1ch<\/p>\n

B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 n\u00ean l\u00e0m g\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb c\u00e1ch ch\u00e0o h\u1ecfi<\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb c\u00e1ch ch\u00e0o h\u1ecfi <\/strong>kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u b\u00e9 v\u1eabn ki\u00ean quy\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng ch\u00e0o h\u1ecfi. Nhi\u1ec1u b\u00e9 c\u00f2n b\u1ecb ch\u00ednh b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ho\u1eb7c m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 l\u00e0 “h\u01b0, nh\u00fat nh\u00e1t, k\u00e9m t\u1ef1 tin….” khi kh\u00f4ng ch\u00e0o h\u1ecfi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e2y d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 n\u00e0o c\u00f3 con nh\u1ecf c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u t\u1eebng g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i, v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i khi t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch “x\u1eed l\u00fd” con sao cho hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3, d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng ch\u00e0o h\u1ecfi<\/strong> t\u1eeb khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf.<\/p>\n

Chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9, ch\u1ecb Nguy\u1ec5n H\u00e0 Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, m\u1ed9t gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean Montessori 0-6 tu\u1ed5i cho r\u1eb1ng, tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9, \u00f4ng b\u00e0, th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn xung quanh tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eeb b\u1ecf th\u00f3i quen: m\u1ed7i khi g\u1eb7p tr\u1ebb, c\u00e2u c\u1eeda mi\u1ec7ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 “con ch\u00e0o c\u00f4\/ch\u00fa ch\u01b0a?<\/strong>” v\u00e0 b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng n\u00ean luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u00f3i quen d\u1ea1y con ngoan<\/strong>: C\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eadt t\u01b0\u01a1i v\u00e0 ch\u00e0o th\u1eadt d\u00f5ng d\u1ea1c m\u1ed9t em b\u00e9 khi b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p. “C\u00f4 A ch\u00e0o Chim \u1ea1, B\u00e1c B ch\u00e0o S\u00e1o \u1ea1, Ch\u00fa C ch\u00e0o T\u00e8o \u1ea1!<\/strong>“.<\/p>\n

1. B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 n\u00ean ch\u00e0o b\u00e9 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u01b0\u01a1ng cho con<\/span><\/h2>\n

\u0110\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00e0o c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 d\u1ea1y cho ph\u00e9p l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 ch\u00e0o h\u1ecfi, c\u00e1ch ch\u00e0o h\u1ecfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn<\/strong> khi g\u1eb7p ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn tu\u1ed5i. Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n khi\u1ebfn cho m\u1ed9t b\u1ea1n nh\u1ecf kh\u00f4ng ch\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. V\u00e0 ngay c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t b\u1ea1n nh\u1ecf ngoan ngoan, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf, d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y th\u00ec c\u0169ng s\u1ebd v\u1eabn c\u00f3 l\u00fac b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng ch\u00e0o h\u1ecfi khi g\u1eb7p ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn.<\/p>\n

Theo c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o Montessori H\u00e0 Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u00ec khi c\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb,<\/strong> m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 do tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y l\u1ea1 l\u1eabm v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 y\u00eau th\u00edch \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ch\u00e0o; do tr\u1ebb \u0111ang b\u1ecb kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu trong ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi, bu\u1ed3n, \u0111ang c\u00e1u k\u1ec9nh… th\u00ec ch\u00fang c\u0169ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ch\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9\/c\u1ea3m x\u00fac cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111ang kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu; ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 do tr\u1ebb \u0111ang mu\u1ed1n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n r\u1eb1ng “ch\u00e0o hay kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 quy\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a con c\u01a1 m\u00e0!<\/strong>“.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ec3 x\u1eed l\u00fd t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3, theo c\u00f4 H\u00e0 Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0, l\u1eddi ch\u00e0o l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u1eabn nhau, m\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb hai ph\u00eda. V\u1eady th\u00ec, thay v\u00ec g\u1eb7p tr\u1ebb ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i tr\u1ebb ch\u00e0o, hay \u201c\u00e9p\u201d tr\u1ebb ch\u00e0o, h\u00e3y ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng ch\u00e0o h\u1ecfi tr\u1ebb tr\u01b0\u1edbc.<\/p>\n

V\u00ed d\u1ee5:<\/p>\n

– A, C\u00f4 ch\u00e0o B\u00e1nh \u1ea1.<\/p>\n

– (Ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y ch\u00e0o l\u1ea1i)<\/p>\n

– C\u00f4 ch\u00e0o B\u00e1nh, con c\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n ch\u00e0o l\u1ea1i c\u00f4 kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n

– (Ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i v\u00e0 v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y ch\u00e0o l\u1ea1i)<\/p>\n

– \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ed3i, v\u1eady l\u1ea7n sau nh\u00e9! (h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c vui v\u1ebb, b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 khoan dung)<\/p>\n

2. C\u1ea7n nh\u1edb g\u00ec d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb c\u00e1ch ch\u00e0o h\u1ecfi<\/span><\/h2>\n
\"d\u1ea1y
D\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb cach ch\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn v\u1edbi 3 b\u01b0\u1edbc theo c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o H\u00e0 Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

H\u00e3y lu\u00f4n nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng,d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb c\u00e1ch ch\u00e0o h\u1ecfi,<\/strong> t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea7n xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong, tr\u1ebb hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 tr\u1ebb mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u00fd ngh\u0129a khi n\u00f3 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c.<\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 tr\u1ebb mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng s\u1ed1ng<\/strong> th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n nghi\u00eam t\u00fac nh\u01b0ng nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng v\u00e0 vui v\u1ebb v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 khi quan s\u00e1t th\u1ea5y tr\u1ebb nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu ch\u00e0o h\u1ecfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c trong m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i.<\/p>\n

Khi tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0o ni\u1ec1m vui m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang l\u1ea1i cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c qua l\u1eddi ch\u00e0o c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, h\u00e3y gi\u00fap con c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng, l\u1eddi ch\u00e0o gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 m\u00e0 m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u1eady.<\/p>\n

Theo afamily<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

B\u1ea1n d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb c\u00e1ch ch\u00e0o h\u1ecfi th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? “Con ch\u00e0o \u00f4ng b\u00e0 \u0111i”, “Sao con ch\u01b0a ch\u00e0o b\u00e1c”… l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u m\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00f9ng khi con m\u00ecnh g\u1eb7p ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u00e0o h\u1ecfi, tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch x\u1eed l\u00fd kh\u00f4n ngoan theo chia s\u1ebb c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":9920,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3347],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-9918","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-nuoi-day-con"},"amp_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9918","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9918"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9918\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9920"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9918"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9918"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9918"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}