{"id":9856,"date":"2019-10-06T09:58:09","date_gmt":"2019-10-06T09:58:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/?p=9856"},"modified":"2019-10-06T09:59:53","modified_gmt":"2019-10-06T09:59:53","slug":"diem-danh-12-loi-khi-nuoi-con-cha-me-hay-mac-phai","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/diem-danh-12-loi-khi-nuoi-con-cha-me-hay-mac-phai.html","title":{"rendered":"\u0110i\u1ec3m danh 12 l\u1ed7i khi nu\u00f4i con cha m\u1eb9 hay m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i"},"content":{"rendered":"

C\u00e1c cha m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1eafc l\u1ed7i khi nu\u00f4i con n\u00e0o?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Cha m\u1eb9 Vi\u1ec7t th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 suy ngh\u0129: “M\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea1y con r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u. \u0110\u00e3 r\u1ea5t quan t\u00e2m l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3. M\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 ch\u0103m con r\u1ea5t c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn. T\u1ea1i sao b\u00e9 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y, b\u00e9 th\u1ebf kia…”<\/em>. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 s\u1ed1 ph\u1eadn c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i. N\u1ebfu con tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn cha m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 sai \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3. D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 l\u1ed7i khi nu\u00f4i con<\/strong> nh\u1ecf cha m\u1eb9 hay m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i.<\/p>\n

1. Kh\u00f4ng chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1edbc t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u00f3 con<\/span><\/h2>\n

L\u1ed7i khi nu\u00f4i con<\/strong> n\u00e0y, r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ed1 m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i. Ho\u1eb7c cha m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng nhi\u1ec1u. Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch v\u00e0 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u c\u00e1c ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi mang thai. \u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 sai l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9<\/strong>. T\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng \u201ctr\u1eddi sinh voi, tr\u1eddi sinh c\u1ecf\u201d, \u201cl\u1edbn l\u00ean n\u00f3 bi\u1ebft\u201d, in \u0111\u1eadm trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed, khi\u1ebfn c\u00e1c cha m\u1eb9 v\u00f4 t\u01b0 m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i t\u1ed9i n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

\"\u0110\u1eebng
Kh\u00f4ng chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u00f3 con l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng l\u1ed7i khi nu\u00f4i con cha m\u1eb9 hay m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

2. Kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch ch\u0103m s\u00f3c b\u00e0 b\u1ea7u v\u00e0 thai nhi<\/span><\/h2>\n

C\u00e1c m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng nghe theo kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u00e0 c\u00e1c c\u00f4 \u0111i tr\u01b0\u1edbc. Ho\u1eb7c l\u1eddi r\u1ec9 tai c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u00e8. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 ch\u00fang ch\u01b0a ki\u1ec3m ch\u1ee9ng. Nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m n\u00e0y nhi\u1ec1u khi khoa h\u1ecdc c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ee9ng minh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. H\u00e3y h\u1ecdc ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ecdc c\u00e1c s\u00e1ch nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con<\/strong> khoa h\u1ecdc.<\/p>\n

V\u00ed d\u1ee5: M\u1eb9 b\u1ea7u \u00e1p tai nghe v\u00e0o b\u1ee5ng cho con nghe nh\u1ea1c. \u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1ed7i khi nu\u00f4i con<\/strong>. Vi\u1ec7c \u00e1p tai \u0111\u00f3 truy\u1ec1n s\u00f3ng \u00e2m v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y b\u1ea5t an cho thai nhi. \u0110i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 thai nhi ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u1ed1t kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nghe nh\u1ea1c th\u00ednh ph\u00f2ng giao h\u01b0\u1edfng. M\u00e0 l\u00e0 t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng th\u01b0 th\u00e1i d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, nghe nh\u1ea1c l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 nghe v\u00e0 nghe theo s\u1edf th\u00edch c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u1eb9. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 tr\u1eeb d\u00f2ng nh\u1ea1c n\u00e0o qu\u00e1 k\u00edch \u0111\u1ed9ng.<\/p>\n

3. Kh\u00f4ng chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c ch\u0103m s\u00f3c s\u1ea3n ph\u1ee5 v\u00e0 tr\u1ebb s\u01a1 sinh<\/span><\/h2>\n

Vi\u1ec7c \u0103n u\u1ed1ng ki\u00eang khem, gi\u1eef g\u00ecn qu\u00e1 k\u0129 l\u01b0\u1ee1ng nhi\u1ec1u khi l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n g\u00e2y b\u1ec7nh cho tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 m\u1eb9. Nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 c\u00e1c m\u1eb9 nghe theo kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i tr\u01b0\u1edbc. Tuy nhi\u00ean kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i kinh nghi\u1ec7m n\u00e0o c\u0169ng \u0111\u00fang. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o n\u00ean sai l\u1ea7m khi nu\u00f4i con<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

V\u00ed d\u1ee5: S\u1ea3n ph\u1ee5 b\u1ecb c\u1ea5m t\u1eafm c\u1ea3 th\u00e1ng tr\u1eddi th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng g\u00e2y kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu cho m\u1eb9. M\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, d\u1ec5 tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m. Ngo\u00e0i ra, vi khu\u1ea9n m\u1eb9 t\u00edch l\u0169y do kh\u00f4ng t\u1eafm r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng truy\u1ec1n sang con.<\/p>\n

Ho\u1eb7c sau khi sinh, hai m\u1eb9 con b\u1ecb nh\u1ed1t v\u00e0o ph\u00f2ng \u1ea5m \u00e1p v\u00e0 k\u00edn gi\u00f3. Ch\u00ednh \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0m cho b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb b\u1ecb suy y\u1ebfu kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng mi\u1ec5n d\u1ecbch. L\u00e0m quen t\u1eeb t\u1eeb v\u1edbi m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 t\u1ea1o kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng mi\u1ec5n d\u1ecbch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n

\"Cha
Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o n\u00ean l\u1ed7i khi nu\u00f4i con \u1edf cha m\u1eb9<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

4. \u0110\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 th\u1ea5p tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng l\u00e0 l\u1ed7i khi nu\u00f4i con<\/span><\/h2>\n

Cha m\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n ngh\u0129 tr\u1ebb v\u00e0i th\u00e1ng tu\u1ed5i l\u00e0 sinh v\u1eadt y\u1ebfu \u1edbt. Tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec n\u00ean cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c d\u1ea1y. \u0110\u00fang ra, khi tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft ng\u1ed3i, cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y b\u1ed1c \u0103n. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 n\u00e2ng cao d\u1ea7n k\u0129 n\u0103ng s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u01b0 duy cho b\u00e9<\/strong>. L\u00e0m tr\u1ebb th\u00eam b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n v\u00e0 s\u1ebd \u00edt th\u1eddi gian ph\u00e1 ph\u00e1ch.<\/p>\n

5. T\u1ea1o cho tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c m\u00ecnh “\u0111\u00e1ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng”<\/span><\/h2>\n

Con m\u1edbi \u00e9 l\u00ean m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfng, cha m\u1eb9 lao ngay ra, \u201cm\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u01a1ng, b\u1ed1 th\u01b0\u01a1ng\u201d, l\u00e0m cho tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh th\u1eadt \u0111\u00e1ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng. Tr\u1ebb s\u01a1 sinh ch\u01b0a hi\u1ec3u g\u00ec v\u1ec1 \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb. Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 cu\u1ed1ng qu\u00fdt c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 khi n\u00f3 k\u00eau g\u00e0o. Ch\u00ednh \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh t\u00e2m l\u00fd th\u00edch “g\u00e2y chuy\u1ec7n” \u0111\u1ec3 cha m\u1eb9 v\u1ed7 v\u1ec1. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ec1 cho t\u00ednh \u0103n v\u1ea1 sau n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

6. B\u1ecf qu\u00ean b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng sinh t\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb<\/span><\/h2>\n

\u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1ed7i cha m\u1eb9 khi nu\u00f4i con<\/strong>. Tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00f3i s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u \u0103n. Tuy v\u1eady nhi\u1ec1u cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 \u0111\u00fang b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng sinh t\u1ed3n n\u00e0y. C\u1ee9 t\u00e2m ni\u1ec7m tr\u1ebb con \u0111\u1ee9a n\u00e0o ch\u1ea3 gh\u00e9t \u0103n, kh\u00f4ng \u00e9p s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0103n. T\u1eeb t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0y, cha m\u1eb9 \u00e9p con \u0103n th\u1eadt nhi\u1ec1u, th\u1eadt gi\u00e0u ch\u1ea5t b\u1ed5, v\u00e0 v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh ph\u00e1 h\u1ecfng h\u1ec7 ti\u00eau h\u00f3a c\u1ee7a con, t\u1ea1o cho con b\u1ec7nh ch\u00e1n \u0103n.<\/p>\n

\"T\u00f4n
\u0110\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i l\u1ed7i khi nu\u00f4i con, \u0111\u1eebng qu\u00ean b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng sinh t\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

8. \u00d4m \u1ea5p con su\u1ed1t ng\u00e0y<\/span><\/h2>\n

Cha m\u1eb9 y\u00eau con, n\u00ean nh\u00ecn con th\u1eadt d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00f4m \u1ea5p nhi\u1ec1u qu\u00e1 t\u1ea1o cho con t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u1ecf b\u1ecdc. Con ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y y\u00ean \u1ed5n, an t\u00e2m khi c\u00f3 cha m\u1eb9 \u1edf b\u00ean. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu m\u1eb9 \u0111i v\u1eafng, \u0111i l\u00e0m, \u0111i h\u1ecdc, b\u00e9 s\u1ebd b\u1ecb “qu\u1eb3ng” ra ngo\u00e0i v\u1ecf b\u1ecdc v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean s\u1ebd ho\u1ea3ng s\u1ee3. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o ra t\u00e2m l\u00fd thi\u1ebfu t\u1ef1 tin \u1edf tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n

9. D\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb li\u00ean t\u1ee5c b\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi<\/span><\/h2>\n

Cha m\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n ngh\u0129 tr\u1ebb hi\u1ec3u 100% nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 d\u1ea1y b\u1ea3o v\u00e0 d\u1ea1y li\u00ean t\u1ee5c b\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi. Tr\u1ebb d\u01b0\u1edbi 2 tu\u1ed5i kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng nghe, hi\u1ec3u r\u1ea5t k\u00e9m. Con s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u t\u1ea1i sao l\u1ea1i b\u1ecb m\u1eb9 qu\u00e1t m\u1eafng \u1ea7m \u1ea7m. B\u00e9 ch\u1ec9 s\u1ee3 v\u00ec ti\u1ebfng \u0111\u1ed9ng, l\u1eddi qu\u00e1t ch\u1ee9 ch\u01b0a hi\u1ec3u \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a c\u00e2u n\u00f3i.<\/p>\n

10. Quan ni\u1ec7m “y\u00eau cho roi cho v\u1ecdt”<\/span><\/h2>\n

Cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn: R\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t con, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i th\u1ea5y cho con \u0103n \u0111\u00f2n l\u00e0 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. Cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng khi \u0111\u00e1nh con, g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng cho con. Nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh t\u1ec7 khi kh\u00f4ng cho con \u0111i ch\u01a1i. T\u1eeb t\u00e2m l\u00fd n\u00e0y, cha m\u1eb9 v\u1eeba d\u1ea1y con kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 (do kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea1t con \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1ch), v\u1eeba l\u00e0m con b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng li\u00ean t\u1ee5c v\u00ec \u0111\u00f2n roi v\u00e0 qu\u00e1t m\u1eafng. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 sai l\u1ea7m khi nu\u00f4i con<\/strong> c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9<\/p>\n

11. Kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng cho con<\/span><\/h2>\n

Cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0m nhi\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh vi x\u1ea5u (n\u00f3i t\u1ee5c, x\u1ea3 r\u00e1c…) v\u00e0 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 con ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft g\u00ec. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, cha m\u1eb9 b\u1eaft con ch\u00e0o trong khi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ch\u00e0o con. Khi con h\u1ecdc theo nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi x\u1ea5u \u0111\u00f3, cha m\u1eb9 l\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1eafng. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y g\u00e2y \u1ee9c ch\u1ebf cho tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n

12. \u0110\u01b0a con \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ea7m non \u0111\u1ed9t ng\u1ed9t<\/span><\/h2>\n

T\u1eeb l\u00fac sinh ra, con \u0111\u00e3 quen v\u1edbi m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea3o tr\u1ee3. B\u1ed7ng m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y, cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01b0a con \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u1edbi to\u00e0n ng\u01b0\u1eddi xa l\u1ea1. V\u00ec th\u1ebf tr\u1ebb kh\u00f3c v\u00e0 \u1ed1m l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u d\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u. T\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb t\u00e2m l\u00fd cho con tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111i h\u1ecdc. \u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y con th\u00f4ng minh<\/strong> c\u1ea3m x\u00fac.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

C\u00e1c cha m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1eafc l\u1ed7i khi nu\u00f4i con n\u00e0o? Cha m\u1eb9 Vi\u1ec7t th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 suy ngh\u0129: “M\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea1y con r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u. \u0110\u00e3 r\u1ea5t quan t\u00e2m l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3. M\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 ch\u0103m con r\u1ea5t c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn. T\u1ea1i sao b\u00e9 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y, b\u00e9 th\u1ebf kia…”. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 s\u1ed1 ph\u1eadn c\u1ee7a con<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":9858,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3347],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-9856","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-nuoi-day-con"},"amp_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9856","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9856"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9856\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9858"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9856"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9856"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9856"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}