{"id":9852,"date":"2019-10-06T09:53:05","date_gmt":"2019-10-06T09:53:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/?p=9852"},"modified":"2019-10-06T09:54:17","modified_gmt":"2019-10-06T09:54:17","slug":"nuoi-day-con-ngoan-dung-noi-voi-con-nhung-cau-nay","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/nuoi-day-con-ngoan-dung-noi-voi-con-nhung-cau-nay.html","title":{"rendered":"Nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con ngoan, \u0111\u1eebng n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00e0y"},"content":{"rendered":"

“C\u00f3 m\u1ed7i th\u1ebf m\u00e0 con c\u0169ng kh\u00f3c \u00e0?” “Con ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc m\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean h\u1ed3n.” “T\u1ea1i sao con kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ecfi nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n A”<\/em>… l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 ti v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh. M\u1eb9 mu\u1ed1n nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con<\/strong> ngoan n\u00ean tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y nh\u00e9.<\/p>\n

H\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 n\u00e0o th\u00ec t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng d\u00e0nh cho con c\u0169ng l\u00e0 v\u00f4 t\u1eadn. Tuy v\u1eady, trong khi tr\u1ebb c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u201cn\u1ed5i \u0111i\u00ean\u201d. V\u00e0 trong nh\u1eefng l\u00fac nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, vi\u1ec7c bu\u00f4ng ra nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng con tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb khi ch\u00fang l\u1edbn l\u00ean. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con<\/strong>. H\u00e3y th\u1eed xem b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd b\u1ecb m\u1eafc v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng nh\u00e9:<\/p>\n

Con l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a v\u00f4 d\u1ee5ng<\/span><\/h2>\n

C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n v\u1eeba \u00fd, ho\u1eb7c ch\u00fang c\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0o c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 l\u00e0m h\u1ecfng c\u00e1i \u0111\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng \u0111u\u1ed5i con ra v\u00e0 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi l\u1ebd mang t\u00ednh mi\u1ec7t th\u1ecb nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 \u00edch l\u1ee3i g\u00ec. Tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i n\u1eefa v\u00ec ch\u00fang s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng: \u201c\u0110\u1eb1ng n\u00e0o trong m\u1eaft b\u1ed1\/m\u1eb9, m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf\u201d. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u1ed7i khi d\u1ea1y con<\/strong> m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean tr\u00e1nh.<\/p>\n

\"\u1ee8ng
\u0110\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con ngoan, n\u00ean tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Sao ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc m\u00e0 con c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean h\u1ed3n<\/span><\/h2>\n

B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 d\u00e0nh to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 th\u1eddi gian cho con t\u1eadp trung h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed cho con h\u1ecdc h\u1ebft l\u1edbp n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1edbp h\u1ecdc th\u00eam kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0ng con v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 l\u00e0 bao nhi\u00eau. \u0110\u1eebng v\u1ed9i ch\u00ea tr\u00e1ch con m\u00e0 h\u00e3y xem s\u1edf th\u00edch v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a con \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u. H\u00e3y cho tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i. Ho\u1eb7c tham gia vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0 thay v\u00ec b\u1eaft con ng\u1ed3i v\u00e0o b\u00e0n h\u1ecdc c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y. B\u1edfi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb ch\u00e1n ng\u00e1n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u00ea bai n\u1eefa th\u00ec tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ea5y.<\/p>\n

Nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con \u0111\u1eebng b\u1ea3o “C\u1ea5m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e3i”<\/span><\/h2>\n

B\u1ea1n cho r\u1eb1ng l\u00e0 con th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e3i b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 trong b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0o. Tuy v\u1eady b\u1ea1n n\u00ean d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian l\u1eafng nghe t\u00e2m t\u01b0 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111o\u00e1n s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng tin t\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1ea1n n\u1eefa. \u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1ed7i nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con<\/strong> m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i.<\/p>\n

\"Nh\u1eefng
L\u1eafng nghe t\u00e2m t\u01b0 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con ngoan<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

T\u1ea1i sao con l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ngoan v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc gi\u1ecfi nh\u01b0 anh A\/ch\u1ecb B nh\u1ec9?<\/span><\/h2>\n

Gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd Joe Elliott (M\u1ef9) kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng so s\u00e1nh khi\u1ebfm khuy\u1ebft c\u1ee7a b\u00e9 v\u1edbi \u01b0u \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u00e9 kh\u00e1c, b\u00e9 s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n trong m\u1eaft b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Khi \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed b\u00e9 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi t\u1ed1t n\u1eefa. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc khi so s\u00e1nh con v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. M\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb sinh ra l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t. Ch\u00fang c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c nhau v\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u1edbi t\u1ea1o n\u00ean s\u1ef1 \u0111a d\u1ea1ng. \u0110\u1eebng so s\u00e1nh. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n cho con<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

C\u00f3 th\u1ebf m\u00e0 con c\u0169ng kh\u00f3c\/bu\u1ed3n \u00e0?<\/span><\/h2>\n

Khi c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng vui khi\u1ebfn con b\u1ea1n kh\u00f3c ho\u1eb7c bu\u1ed3n b\u1ef1c, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eebng v\u1ed9i coi th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. \u0110\u1eebng d\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi l\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng hay \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng con. M\u1ed7i c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng. V\u00e0 h\u1eb3n l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y con m\u00ecnh v\u00f4 c\u1ea3m ch\u1ee9? Nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con<\/strong> ngoan, h\u00e3y nh\u1edb \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

B\u1eb1ng tu\u1ed5i con, b\u1ed1\/m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1ee9<\/span><\/h2>\n

B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 nu\u00f4i con<\/strong> nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed7i th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 m\u1ed9t kh\u00e1c. Con b\u1ea1n cho d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu nhi\u1ec1u \u00e1p l\u1ef1c \u1edf hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. Vi\u1ec7c mang b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ra l\u00e0m h\u00ecnh m\u1eabu l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. Nh\u01b0ng t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 n\u00ean khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch con h\u01a1n l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c so s\u00e1nh ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

“C\u00f3 m\u1ed7i th\u1ebf m\u00e0 con c\u0169ng kh\u00f3c \u00e0?” “Con ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc m\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean h\u1ed3n.” “T\u1ea1i sao con kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ecfi nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n A”… l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 ti v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh. M\u1eb9 mu\u1ed1n nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con ngoan n\u00ean tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y nh\u00e9. H\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":9854,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3347],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-9852","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-nuoi-day-con"},"amp_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9852","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9852"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9852\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9854"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9852"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9852"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9852"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}