{"id":9462,"date":"2019-10-04T08:14:52","date_gmt":"2019-10-04T08:14:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/?p=9462"},"modified":"2019-10-04T08:15:52","modified_gmt":"2019-10-04T08:15:52","slug":"nhung-cau-noi-dua-lam-ton-thuong-sau-sac-den-tre","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/nhung-cau-noi-dua-lam-ton-thuong-sau-sac-den-tre.html","title":{"rendered":"Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u0111\u00f9a l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u00e2u s\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb"},"content":{"rendered":"

C\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m m\u1ed9t b\u00e9 g\u00e1i 8 tu\u1ed5i Trung Qu\u1ed1c \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea3 em t\u1eeb ban c\u00f4ng t\u1ea7ng 8 sau c\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u0111\u00f9a “b\u1ecb cho ra r\u00eca” c\u1ee7a h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m khi\u1ebfn kh\u00f4ng \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1eadt m\u00ecnh. D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c Nguy\u1ec5n Th\u1ee5y Anh v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng h\u1ec7 qu\u1ea3 kh\u00f4n l\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1eeb c\u00e1c c\u00e2u \u0111\u00f9a t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00f4 h\u1ea1i cho tr\u1ebb:<\/p>\n

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Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn l\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 ng\u01a1 ng\u00e1c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m vui m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e2u \u0111\u00f9a v\u00f4 duy\u00ean l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n g\u00e2y x\u00e1o tr\u1ed9n tinh th\u1ea7n, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m \u1edf tr\u1ebb.<\/strong><\/p>\n

T\u00f4i t\u1eebng ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn c\u1eadu b\u00e9 2 tu\u1ed5i r\u01b0\u1ee1i o\u00e0 kh\u00f3c \u0111au kh\u1ed5 khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m \u0111\u00f9a c\u1eadu, r\u1eb1ng “b\u1ed1 c\u00f3 d\u00ec hai r\u1ed3i, kh\u00f4ng v\u1ec1 n\u1eefa \u0111\u00e2u!<\/em>” d\u00f9 c\u1eadu kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u “d\u00ec hai<\/em>” l\u00e0 g\u00ec! Sau \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch th\u1ebf n\u00e0o b\u00e9 v\u1eabn t\u1ee7i th\u00e2n, n\u1ee9c n\u1edf m\u00e3i \u0111\u1ebfn th\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n

L\u1ea1i c\u00f3 c\u1eadu b\u00e9 sang h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m ch\u01a1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0i ph\u00fat \u0111\u00e3 v\u1ed9i v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 n\u1eb1ng n\u1eb7c \u0111\u00f2i v\u1ee9t c\u00e1i qu\u1ea7n \u0111i v\u00ec b\u00e1c A b\u1ea3o “con m\u1eb7c qu\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a con g\u00e1i!<\/em>“.<\/p>\n

Nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ch\u1ec9 th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn c\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00f4i c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ea3nh gi\u00e1c, khi\u1ebfn b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i ra s\u1ee9c ph\u00e2n bua: “\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u01b0\u1eddi vui ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i c\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1ea1o!<\/em>”<\/p>\n

L\u1ea1i c\u00f3 l\u1ea7n \u0111i m\u00e1y bay, t\u00f4i nghe th\u1ea5y c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n “kinh d\u1ecb”. B\u00e0 m\u1eb9 tr\u1ebb d\u1ed7 con kh\u00f3c m\u00e3i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, b\u00e8n g\u1ecdi m\u1ed9t thanh ni\u00ean h\u00e0ng gh\u1ebf b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh: “Ch\u00fa \u01a1i, ch\u00fa \u0103n th\u1ecbt n\u00f3 \u0111i n\u00e0y! N\u00f3 c\u1ee9 kh\u00f3c m\u00e3i<\/em>“. Thanh ni\u00ean kia nhanh ch\u00f3ng “nh\u1eadp vai”: “\u00c1 \u00e0, \u0111\u01b0a mu\u1ed1i ti\u00eau ra \u0111\u00e2y, l\u00e2u qu\u00e1 ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0103n th\u1ecbt tr\u1ebb con<\/em>!”. N\u00f3i th\u1eadt l\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 r\u00f9ng m\u00ecnh, cho\u00e1ng v\u00e1ng kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u n\u1ed5i nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn \u0111\u00f3 ngh\u0129 g\u00ec m\u00e0 n\u00f3i v\u1eady.<\/p>\n

\"Nh\u1eefng<\/p>\n

Chuy\u1ec7n “\u0111\u00f9a \u00e1c” v\u00e0 “h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc” l\u00e0 hai c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00e1c nhau; vi\u1ec7c “do\u1ea1 cho s\u1ee3” v\u00e0 “d\u1ea1y con” c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ai c\u0169ng nh\u00ecn ra ranh gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m \u0111\u00f3. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn th\u00edch \u0111\u00f9a l\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 ng\u01a1 ng\u00e1c c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m vui, \u0111\u00f4i khi \u0111\u00f9a ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00f9a, ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 \u00fd g\u00ec. S\u1ef1 v\u00f4 \u00fd v\u00f4 t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u \u0111\u00f9a v\u00f4 duy\u00ean c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng x\u00e1o tr\u1ed9n tinh th\u1ea7n, \u0111\u00f4i khi c\u1ea3 tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb. Nh\u01b0ng th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ea5y nh\u1ea5t v\u1eabn l\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng “c\u00e1u gi\u1eadn”, “t\u1ee9c \u0111i\u00ean l\u00ean” v\u00e0 c\u00e0ng t\u1ee9c c\u00e0ng b\u1ecb tr\u00eau dai, \u0111\u00f9a nh\u1ea3.<\/p>\n

Xin h\u00e3y th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng trong l\u1eddi n\u00f3i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb – nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh n\u1ed7i \u00e1m \u1ea3nh tu\u1ed5i th\u01a1.<\/strong><\/p>\n

D\u00f9 l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb con hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3”c\u00e1i t\u00f4i” c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 c\u00e2u \u0111\u00f9a n\u00e0o li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ee9 l\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u00e9. Nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb nh\u01b0 “h\u01b0, x\u1ea5u, d\u1ed1t, d\u1edf h\u01a1i, c\u00f2m nhom, b\u00e9o ph\u00ec, kh\u00f4ng ai ch\u01a1i, kh\u00f4ng ai th\u00e8m y\u00eau, ra r\u00eca r\u1ed3i…” \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m, tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp h\u1ea1 th\u1ea5p gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, kh\u00f4ng vui. Nh\u01b0ng v\u00ec l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, \u0111\u1ed9 t\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7 cao, h\u1ecd b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh h\u01a1n ho\u1eb7c bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch l\u00e1i t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng theo h\u01b0\u1edbng h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n.<\/p>\n

V\u1edbi em b\u00e9 \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i m\u1ea7m non, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng l\u00ean 3, th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c b\u1ecb ch\u00ea, b\u1ecb gi\u1ec5u c\u1ee3t khi\u1ebfn b\u00e9 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng r\u01a1i v\u00e0o tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i b\u00f9ng n\u1ed5 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c khi\u1ebfn c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh vi r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n, b\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u01a1n x\u00fac \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. B\u00e9 ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7 s\u1ee9c ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u \u0111\u00f9a \u00e1c hay m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi n\u00f3i m\u1ec9a mai: m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn n\u00f3i ra \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00e9 ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt, \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00e2m l\u00fd b\u00e9.<\/p>\n

C\u00e1c \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00f3i chung, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 2-3 tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0 13-15 tu\u1ed5i l\u00e0 hai \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t l\u1eddi \u0103n ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Hai \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 gi\u1ec5u c\u1ee3t, mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 c\u00e1i t\u00f4i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng, l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u00fd. Cho n\u00ean, thay v\u00ec \u0111\u00f9a c\u1ee3t n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u00e9 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, h\u00e3y h\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec khi\u1ebfn b\u00e9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y vui v\u1ebb, chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi b\u00e9 nh\u1eefng b\u0103n kho\u0103n, l\u00e0m b\u00e9 t\u1ef1 tin h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00f9a \u00e1c v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 d\u1ecda d\u1eabm (\u00f4ng Ba b\u1ecb, \u00f4ng Ng\u00e1o \u1ed8p, ch\u00fa c\u00f4ng an \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1eaft)… ra kh\u1ecfi phong c\u00e1ch giao ti\u1ebfp c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf. B\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng, nh\u1eb9 l\u00e0 lo s\u1ee3, ho\u1ea3ng h\u1ed1t, th\u1ea5y t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn, n\u1eb7ng l\u00e0 b\u1ecb \u00e1m \u1ea3nh, \u0111\u00eam kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, m\u01a1 ho\u1ea3ng. N\u1eb7ng h\u01a1n n\u1eefa l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi l\u1ec7ch l\u1ea1c, ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft n\u1ed7i lo s\u1ee3, gi\u1eadn h\u1eddn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. C\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u00f4 b\u00e9 th\u1ea3 em trai c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh xu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ea5t sau c\u00e2u \u0111\u00f9a c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u00ed d\u1ee5 \u0111au l\u00f2ng.<\/p>\n

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C\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m m\u1ed9t b\u00e9 g\u00e1i 8 tu\u1ed5i Trung Qu\u1ed1c \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea3 em t\u1eeb ban c\u00f4ng t\u1ea7ng 8 sau c\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u0111\u00f9a “b\u1ecb cho ra r\u00eca” c\u1ee7a h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m khi\u1ebfn kh\u00f4ng \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1eadt m\u00ecnh. D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c Nguy\u1ec5n Th\u1ee5y Anh v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng h\u1ec7 qu\u1ea3 kh\u00f4n l\u01b0\u1eddng<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":9463,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3347],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-9462","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-nuoi-day-con"},"amp_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9462","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9462"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9462\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9463"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9462"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9462"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9462"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}