{"id":8902,"date":"2019-10-03T13:50:52","date_gmt":"2019-10-03T13:50:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/?p=8902"},"modified":"2021-02-04T13:26:15","modified_gmt":"2021-02-04T06:26:15","slug":"tre-buong-binh-giup-con-vuot-qua-khung-hoang-tuoi-len-3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/tre-buong-binh-giup-con-vuot-qua-khung-hoang-tuoi-len-3.html","title":{"rendered":"Tr\u1ebb b\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ec9nh: Gi\u00fap con v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng tu\u1ed5i l\u00ean 3"},"content":{"rendered":"

Khi c\u00f3 con \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i l\u00ean ba, kh\u00f4ng \u00edt cha m\u1eb9<\/strong> than phi\u1ec1n kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u sao tr\u1ebb b\u1ed7ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean ngang b\u01b0\u1edbng, th\u00edch l\u00e0m theo \u00fd m\u00ecnh, hay \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi, m\u00e8 nheo, kh\u00f3c l\u00f3c, \u0103n v\u1ea1, l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00fd ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 n\u00e9m \u0111\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ea1c, n\u00f3i t\u1ee5c, c\u00f3 khi c\u00f2n \u0111\u00e1nh l\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn…<\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 “kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng” \u1edf tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 lo l\u1eafng, kh\u00f4ng v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng “d\u00e1n nh\u00e3n” con h\u01b0.<\/p>\n

V\u00ec \u0111\u00e2u tr\u1ebb b\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ec9nh?<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Th\u1eadt ra, s\u1ef1 b\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ec9nh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n l\u00e0 x\u1ea5u. Khi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi xung quanh, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc v\u00e0 lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n Gi\u00fap con v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng tu\u1ed5i l\u00ean 3\n

Tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4n l\u1edbn n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd ki\u1ebfn, suy ngh\u0129, nhu c\u1ea7u hay mong \u01b0\u1edbc, nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1ebb m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tho\u00e1t ra kh\u1ecfi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0 r\u00e8n t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp. Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi n\u00e0y v\u01b0\u1ee3t qu\u00e1 nh\u1eefng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n cho ph\u00e9p v\u00e0 vi ph\u1ea1m nh\u1eefng quy t\u1eafc \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c, th\u00ec r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0 u\u1ed1n n\u1eafn k\u1ecbp th\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

Tr\u1ebb mu\u1ed1n kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00e1i t\u00f4i<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

Tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m theo s\u1ef1 ra l\u1ec7nh, ch\u1ec9 b\u1ea3o c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng hay c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 l\u1edbn. Tuy nhi\u00ean, tr\u1ebb ch\u01b0a ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00fang sai, n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a b\u00e9<\/strong> c\u00f2n h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, do th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn c\u1ea5m \u0111o\u00e1n n\u00ean nhu c\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n, khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i.<\/p>\n

S\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb:<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

Tr\u1ebb tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u00e1u b\u1eb3n, ngang ng\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0 “l\u00e0m m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m m\u1ea9y” khi b\u1ec7nh nh\u01b0 c\u1ea3m s\u1ed1t, vi\u00eam h\u1ecdng, \u0111au \u0111\u1ea7u, m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi… Khi nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u b\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ec9nh, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 n\u00ean l\u01b0u t\u00e2m v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe c\u1ee7a b\u00e9. Tuy nhi\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean chi\u1ec1u theo t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi v\u00f4 l\u00fd c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, kh\u00f4ng t\u1ea1o cho con th\u00f3i quen v\u00f2i v\u0129nh.<\/p>\n

Tr\u1ebb l\u00f4i k\u00e9o s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd:<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00ec c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n n\u00ean \u00edt quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn con; ho\u1eb7c b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n trong tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i lo \u00e2u, c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb m\u1ea5t \u0111i c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c “g\u1eafn b\u00f3 an to\u00e0n”, lu\u00f4n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n, h\u1ee5t h\u1eabng v\u00e0 lo \u00e2u. Tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n b\u1ee9t r\u1ee9t, kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, h\u00e0nh vi c\u00e3i l\u1ea1i, ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ec3 thu h\u00fat s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9.<\/p>\n

Cha m\u1eb9 qu\u00e1 chi\u1ec1u chu\u1ed9ng: <\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

Khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chi\u1ec1u chu\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 b\u1ea3o b\u1ecdc qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c, tr\u1ebb l\u00ean ba s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi b\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ec9nh v\u00e0 ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i. Kh\u00f4ng \u00edt cha m\u1eb9 v\u00ec mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ee1 m\u1ea5t th\u1eddi gian n\u00ean chi\u1ec1u theo \u00fd con cho “y\u00ean chuy\u1ec7n”, v\u00ec v\u1eady h\u00e0nh vi b\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ec9nh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng gia t\u0103ng.<\/p>\n

Tr\u1ebb b\u1ecb \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t, la m\u1eafng:<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

Lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 m\u1ed1i li\u00ean h\u1ec7 tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp gi\u1eefa c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb. Khi b\u1ecb \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t, \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1eafng, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd mang c\u1ea3m x\u00fac kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, v\u00ec v\u1eady s\u1ebd c\u01b0 x\u1eed c\u1ed9c c\u1eb1n v\u00e0 th\u00f4 b\u1ea1o. Tr\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1eafng s\u1ebd b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1, tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u01b0\u01a1ng b\u01b0\u1edbng. Tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc theo cha m\u1eb9 th\u00f4ng qua “ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng g\u01b0\u01a1ng soi”, v\u00ec th\u1ebf s\u1ebd c\u00f3 h\u00e0nh vi b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean kh\u00e1c nh\u1ecf h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

Ba m\u1eb9 \u1ee9ng x\u1eed th\u1ebf n\u00e0o khi tr\u1ebb b\u01b0\u1edbng?<\/strong><\/h2>\n

– Ngang ng\u1ea1nh, ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i:<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u00e9 \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y th\u00edch n\u00f3i “kh\u00f4ng” v\u00e0 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c vi ph\u1ea1m nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ecb ng\u0103n c\u1ea5m. V\u00ec v\u1eady, ngay t\u1eeb khi con c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi nhau \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec b\u00e9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n ki\u00ean quy\u1ebft, d\u1ee9t kho\u00e1t v\u1edbi quy \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1eb7t ra. B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n trong c\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y con<\/strong>, tr\u00e1nh t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng b\u1ed1 la m\u1eafng m\u00e0 m\u1eb9 l\u1ea1i b\u00eanh v\u1ef1c, c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh vi sai tr\u00e1i c\u1ee7a con m\u00e0 l\u00fac ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn, l\u00fac kh\u00e1c l\u1ea1i ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i.<\/p>\n

\"Gi\u00fap
Gi\u00fap con v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

– Kh\u00f3c l\u00f3c, \u0103n v\u1ea1:<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

Khi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u mong mu\u1ed1n, b\u00e9 ph\u1ea3n kh\u00e1ng b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e9m \u0111\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ea1c, g\u00e0o kh\u00f3c, m\u00e8 nheo, l\u0103n ra \u0103n v\u1ea1, \u0111\u1eadp \u0111\u1ea7u… B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u00e0ng d\u1ed7 d\u00e0nh th\u00ec b\u00e9 c\u00e0ng \u0103n v\u1ea1, c\u00e0ng ch\u00fa \u00fd th\u00ec b\u00e9 c\u00e0ng “l\u00e0m t\u1edbi”. V\u00ec v\u1eady, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 n\u00ean \u0111\u00e1nh l\u1ea1c h\u01b0\u1edbng tr\u1ebb b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch thu h\u00fat tr\u1ebb tham gia c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00e1c. N\u1ebfu b\u00e9 v\u1eabn g\u00e0o kh\u00f3c, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng “k\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt ph\u1edbt l\u1edd”. B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 ch\u0103m ch\u00fa v\u00e0o c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c kh\u00e1c. D\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c “\u0103n v\u1ea1” kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng v\u00e0 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f3c l\u00f3c, m\u00e8 nheo n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

– L\u00e0m tr\u00e1i: <\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

Tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p tr\u1ebb th\u00edch l\u00e0m tr\u00e1i \u00fd, cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng “chi\u00eau” t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 c\u1ee7a b\u00e9. V\u00ed d\u1ee5: b\u00e9 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c k\u00e9o gh\u1ebf qua l\u1ea1i g\u00e2y ti\u1ebfng \u1ed3n, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 r\u1ea5t b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i, nh\u01b0ng cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean t\u1ecf ra vui v\u1ebb, y\u00eau c\u1ea7u b\u00e9 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c k\u00e9o gh\u1ebf nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n n\u1eefa. L\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 b\u00e9 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u00e0o h\u1ee9ng v\u1edbi tr\u00f2 ph\u00e1 ph\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh n\u1eefa v\u00e0 s\u1ebd d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n

– Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9: <\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

Thay v\u00ec ra l\u1ec7nh, b\u1eaft b\u00e9 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m theo \u00fd m\u00ecnh, cha m\u1eb9 h\u00e3y kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o cho b\u00e9 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n: “Con mu\u1ed1n u\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t ly s\u1eefa hay n\u1eeda ly s\u1eefa”, “Con mu\u1ed1n m\u1eb7c b\u1ed9 qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o xanh hay m\u00e0u \u0111\u1ecf?”. Khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quy\u1ec1n t\u1ef1 ch\u1ecdn, b\u00e9 s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y vui v\u1ebb v\u00e0 h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng.<\/p>\n

– \u0110\u00f2i l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c:<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

Khi l\u00ean ba, tr\u1ebb b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 n\u1ea3y sinh nguy\u1ec7n v\u1ecdng t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c, mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ec3 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 m\u1eb7c qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o, t\u1ef1 x\u00fac \u0103n, tham gia ph\u1ee5 gi\u00fap vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0 theo kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a b\u00e9, nh\u01b0 l\u1ea5y r\u1ed5 r\u00e1 cho m\u1eb9, gi\u00fap m\u1eb9 nh\u1eb7t rau, l\u1ea5y n\u01b0\u1edbc cho b\u1ed1…<\/p>\n

V\u1edbi s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n b\u00e9 s\u1ebd ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c giao v\u00e0 s\u1ebd h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh th\u00f3i quen t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp. Vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e2n t\u00edch \u0111\u00fang sai c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00e0o c\u0169ng ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn, v\u00ec v\u1eady ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u00e0 nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi cho b\u00e9 th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e9 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p l\u00e0m.<\/p>\n

– \u0110\u00f2i mua \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i: <\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

Tr\u1ebb \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u00f2i mua nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb th\u00edch, tuy nhi\u00ean n\u1ebfu lu\u00f4n \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng th\u00ec tr\u1ebb m\u1eb7c nhi\u00ean ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng c\u1ee9 \u0111\u00f2i l\u00e0 s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c “l\u00e0m m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m m\u1ea9y” cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng. V\u00ec v\u1eady b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 d\u1ee9t kho\u00e1t. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 h\u1ee3p l\u00fd, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch con t\u00edch l\u0169y \u0111i\u1ec3m th\u01b0\u1edfng m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y khi c\u00f3 h\u00e0nh vi t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed5i m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 tr\u1ebb th\u00edch. C\u1ee9 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, b\u00e9 s\u1ebd hi\u1ec3u l\u00fd l\u1ebd, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi b\u00e9 s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1edd s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

– V\u00f4 l\u1ec5 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn:<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

Khi kh\u00f4ng h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng, c\u00f3 khi b\u00e9 c\u00e3i l\u1ea1i, n\u00f3i t\u1ee5c, gi\u01a1 tay \u0111\u00e1nh, c\u00e0o ho\u1eb7c n\u00f3i v\u00f4 l\u1ec5 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1eafng b\u00e9. C\u1ea7n b\u00e0y t\u1ecf th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc, y\u00eau c\u1ea7u tr\u1ebb d\u1eebng h\u00e0nh vi. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1eed ph\u1ea1t b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng cho tr\u1ebb \u0111i ch\u01a1i ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng k\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec7n cho tr\u1ebb nghe. Y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u01b0ng nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc, lu\u00f4n nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n trong c\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y con l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 gi\u00fap con d\u1ea7n h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf h\u00e0nh vi v\u00f4 l\u1ec5.<\/p>\n

– Mong mu\u1ed1n s\u1edf h\u1eefu: <\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n

Tr\u1ebb l\u00ean ba th\u01b0\u1eddng mu\u1ed1n m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 xung quanh thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh, c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u0169ng cho l\u00e0 “c\u1ee7a con”, kh\u00f4ng cho ai \u0111\u1ee5ng v\u00e0o, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n ai g\u1ea7n g\u0169i ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u00e9 g\u1eafn b\u00f3. Ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u1ea7n nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng v\u00e0 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch cho b\u00e9 hi\u1ec3u c\u00e1i n\u00e0o l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a b\u00e9, c\u00e1i n\u00e0o l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, c\u00e1i n\u00e0o l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a chung…<\/p>\n

Quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n h\u1ebft cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 “g\u1eafn b\u00f3 an to\u00e0n” \u0111\u1ec3 con an t\u00e2m, tin t\u01b0\u1edfng, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi l\u00e0m g\u01b0\u01a1ng cho con th\u00f4ng qua s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh, t\u1ea1o c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 con h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng chia s\u1ebb.<\/p>\n

Ba m\u1eb9 nh\u1edb nh\u00e9: Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00e0o c\u0169ng tr\u1ea3i qua kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng tu\u1ed5i l\u00ean ba. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u1ebb b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o n\u0103m th\u1ee9 ba c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u00eam \u0111\u1ec1m, ph\u1eb3ng l\u1eb7ng. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a t\u1eebng tr\u1ebb, b\u1edfi v\u00ec m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1 th\u1ec3 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t. Y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u01b0ng nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc, \u0111\u1eb7t cho con nh\u1eefng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch gi\u00fap con ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp, t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c v\u01b0\u01a1n l\u00ean trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/em><\/p>\n

Th\u1ea1c s\u0129 t\u00e2m l\u00fd V\u0169 C\u1ea9m V\u00e2n<\/strong><\/p>\n

(Theo Phunuonline)<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Khi c\u00f3 con \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i l\u00ean ba, kh\u00f4ng \u00edt cha m\u1eb9 than phi\u1ec1n kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u sao tr\u1ebb b\u1ed7ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean ngang b\u01b0\u1edbng, th\u00edch l\u00e0m theo \u00fd m\u00ecnh, hay \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi, m\u00e8 nheo, kh\u00f3c l\u00f3c, \u0103n v\u1ea1, l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00fd ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 n\u00e9m \u0111\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ea1c, n\u00f3i t\u1ee5c, c\u00f3 khi c\u00f2n \u0111\u00e1nh l\u1ea1i<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3347],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-8902","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-nuoi-day-con"},"amp_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8902","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8902"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8902\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8902"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8902"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8902"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}