{"id":8781,"date":"2019-10-03T09:43:53","date_gmt":"2019-10-03T09:43:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/?p=8781"},"modified":"2019-10-03T09:46:13","modified_gmt":"2019-10-03T09:46:13","slug":"loi-khen-khong-dung-luc-se-anh-huong-xau-toi-con","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/loi-khen-khong-dung-luc-se-anh-huong-xau-toi-con.html","title":{"rendered":"L\u1eddi khen kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang l\u00fac s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng x\u1ea5u t\u1edbi con"},"content":{"rendered":"

L\u1eddi khen<\/strong> \u0111\u00fang l\u00fac \u0111\u00fang n\u01a1i s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1ea5t t\u00edch c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a con. Nh\u01b0ng li\u1ec7u ba m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft l\u1eddi khen \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb7t sai ch\u1ed7 c\u0169ng g\u00e2y r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u t\u00e1c h\u1ea1i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb? Hi v\u1ecdng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng tin d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap \u00edch cho ba m\u1eb9 trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

\"l\u1eddi
D\u00e0nh cho con nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen \u0111\u00fang<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

M\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i chi\u1ec1u cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n, t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0 gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 \u0103n c\u01a1m. V\u1eeba b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o c\u1eeda, c\u00f4 con g\u00e1i 5 tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ea1y ra l\u1ec5 ph\u00e9p ch\u00e0o h\u1ecfi. T\u00f4i ch\u00e0o th\u1ea7y v\u00e0 quay ra xoa \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00f4 b\u00e9: \u201cEm xinh qu\u00e1 \u0111i m\u1ea5t!\u201d.<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i \u0111em qu\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a cho c\u00f4 b\u00e9, c\u00f4 b\u00e9 l\u1ea1i c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m \u01a1n. T\u00f4i quay sang th\u1ea7y vui v\u1ebb \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i: \u201cCon g\u00e1i th\u1ea7y xinh qu\u00e1 \u1ea1\u201d. B\u1ea5t ch\u1ee3t t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra s\u1eafc m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y thay \u0111\u1ed5i. \u0110\u1ee3i c\u00f4 b\u00e9 \u0111i kh\u1ecfi, th\u1ea7y n\u00f3i: \u201cTr\u00f2 h\u00e3y xin l\u1ed7i con b\u00e9 v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m n\u00f3 bu\u1ed3n\u201d. T\u00f4i v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean: \u201cCon m\u1edbi ch\u1ec9 khen c\u00f4 b\u00e9, th\u01b0a th\u1ea7y\u201d. Gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 l\u1eafc \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0 n\u00f3i: \u201cTr\u00f2 khen con b\u00e9 xinh. Nh\u01b0ng xinh x\u1ea5u kh\u00f4ng do ch\u00fang quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u1ea5t vui v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u01b0u \u0111i\u1ec3m. Th\u1ea7y kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n sau n\u00e0y con b\u00e9 s\u1ebd coi th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb x\u1ea5u h\u01a1n n\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng con b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng cho tr\u00f2 bi\u1ebft n\u00f3 ngoan ngo\u00e3n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. Con b\u00e9 s\u1ebd bu\u1ed3n v\u00ec tr\u00f2 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3\u201d.
\n\u0110\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c tr\u1ebb c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi B\u1eafc \u00c2u. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 nghe l\u1eddi th\u1ea7y v\u00e0 l\u00ean xin l\u1ed7i c\u00f4 b\u00e9. Vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i hi\u1ec3u ra m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u: \u201cN\u00ean khen s\u1ef1 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng v\u00e0 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean khen tr\u1ebb th\u00f4ng minh v\u00e0 xinh \u0111\u1eb9p. L\u1eddi khen ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 \u00edch v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u1edf tr\u1ebb. Nh\u1eefng k\u0129 n\u0103ng tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1edbi l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang\u201d.<\/em><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eebng khen tr\u1ebb th\u00f4ng minh, h\u00e3y khen tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c<\/strong><\/p>\n

Khi con \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec3m cao, l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed1t hay c\u00f3 khi ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 c\u00e2u n\u00f3i l\u00e9m l\u1ec9nh, \u0111\u00e1ng y\u00eau, nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ea7n ng\u1ea1i khen con th\u00f4ng minh. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t!<\/p>\n

Tr\u00ed th\u00f4ng minh b\u1ea9m sinh c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1ee3i th\u1ebf cho s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n sau n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc t\u1ed1t, \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebfu l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9, c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng. Ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n c\u00f2n tr\u00ed th\u00f4ng minh b\u1ea9m sinh th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. M\u1eb9 khen con th\u00f4ng minh khi con \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111i\u1ec3m s\u1ed1 t\u1ed1t s\u1ebd l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng th\u00e0nh qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1edd s\u1ef1 th\u00f4ng minh. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap con ch\u00fa tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u00fang m\u1ee9c v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 \u2013 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 duy tr\u00ec n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb v\u1ec1 l\u00e2u d\u00e0i.<\/em><\/p>\n

Cha m\u1eb9 h\u00e3y khen th\u01b0\u1edfng d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean s\u1ef1 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a con. Thay v\u00ec khen: \u201cCon th\u00f4ng minh qu\u00e1\u201d cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khen: \u201cT\u1ed1t l\u1eafm, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng cho n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a con\u201d. Khen th\u01b0\u1edfng d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean s\u1ef1 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c th\u00ec c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a d\u00f9 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t nh\u01b0 tr\u1ebb ho\u1eb7c cha m\u1eb9 mong mu\u1ed1n nh\u01b0ng b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng, ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 khi l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng \u0111\u00e1ng khen. L\u1eddi khen<\/strong> n\u00e0y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng s\u00e1o r\u1ed7ng v\u00e0 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a con, khi\u1ebfn con s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c h\u1ebft m\u00ecnh khi l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c.<\/p>\n

Chuy\u00ean gia t\u00e2m l\u00fd cho r\u1eb1ng: \u201cKhi b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 do m\u1ed7i t\u00e0i n\u0103ng, l\u00fac th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tin l\u1ed7i t\u1ea1i m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3. C\u00f2n n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n tin r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n lao \u0111\u1ed9ng nghi\u00eam t\u00fac, d\u00e0y c\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n, th\u00ec khi v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ee9ng d\u1eady \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u01a1n xa h\u01a1n\u201d.<\/p>\n

Cho bi\u1ebft v\u00ec sao tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khen<\/strong><\/p>\n

L\u1eddi khen<\/strong> bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n \u0111i c\u00f9ng gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a g\u00ec. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean khen chung chung: \u201cCon ngoan l\u1eafm\u201d, \u201cCon gi\u1ecfi l\u1eafm\u201d m\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0: \u201cCon l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t vui v\u00ec\u2026\u201d. H\u00e3y cho tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft t\u1ea1i sao b\u00e9 l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khen. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady b\u00e9 m\u1edbi hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u00fang m\u1eb9 \u0111ang khen m\u00ecnh c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea7n sau n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

C\u1ea3m \u01a1n h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a con<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"l\u1eddi
D\u00e0nh l\u1eddi khen cho nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a con<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Trong cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch \u201cCha m\u1eb9 Nh\u1eadt d\u1ea1y con<\/strong> t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp\u201d t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 Sugarhara n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng: N\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 n\u00e0o l\u1ea5y vi\u1ec7c khen ng\u1ee3i con l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng. Nguy c\u01a1 tr\u1ebb ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cha m\u1eb9 khen ng\u1ee3i. Nh\u01b0ng khi tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec, thay v\u00ec n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u \u201cCon m\u1eb9 gi\u1ecfi qu\u00e1\u201d, \u201cCon m\u1eb9 qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn\u201d, th\u00ec cha m\u1eb9 h\u00e3y n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi c\u1ea3m \u01a1n v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c con \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m gi\u00fap b\u1eb1ng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac vui s\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb nh\u01b0 \u201cC\u1ea3m \u01a1n con\u201d, \u201cCon \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u vi\u1ec7c\u201d, \u201cM\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t vui\u201d. B\u1edfi v\u00ec khi gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 cha m\u1eb9, tr\u1ebb r\u1ea5t mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn g\u00ec v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u1ea5y. Khi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u00e3y n\u00f3i cho tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 c\u00e0ng truy\u1ec1n t\u1ea3i c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 t\u1eebng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 \u0111em \u0111\u1ebfn cho m\u00ecnh nh\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00e0 l\u1ee3i \u00edch g\u00ec c\u00e0ng t\u1ed1t.<\/p>\n

Th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a con b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i ra c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u1ea5y c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch khen ng\u1ee3i.<\/p>\n

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L\u1eddi khen \u0111\u00fang l\u00fac \u0111\u00fang n\u01a1i s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1ea5t t\u00edch c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a con. Nh\u01b0ng li\u1ec7u ba m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft l\u1eddi khen \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb7t sai ch\u1ed7 c\u0169ng g\u00e2y r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u t\u00e1c h\u1ea1i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb? Hi v\u1ecdng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng tin d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap \u00edch cho ba m\u1eb9 trong<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":8783,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3347],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-8781","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-nuoi-day-con"},"amp_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8781","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8781"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8781\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/8783"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8781"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8781"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8781"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}