{"id":8622,"date":"2019-10-03T07:59:53","date_gmt":"2019-10-03T07:59:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/?p=8622"},"modified":"2019-10-03T08:01:26","modified_gmt":"2019-10-03T08:01:26","slug":"3-dieu-can-biet-de-day-tre-tinh-tu-lap","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/3-dieu-can-biet-de-day-tre-tinh-tu-lap.html","title":{"rendered":"3 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cM\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng b\u00ed quy\u1ebft d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 Nh\u1eadt lu\u00f4n ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn l\u1eafng nghe \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u con<\/strong>.\u201d \u0110i\u1ec1u cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp<\/strong><\/p>\n

Cha m\u1eb9 Nh\u1eadt d\u1ea1y con t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp<\/strong> t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c r\u1ea5t \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng c\u00e1 t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a con. C\u00f9ng kyna.vn <\/strong>tham kh\u1ea3o c\u00e1ch ba m\u1eb9 Nh\u1eadt d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp <\/strong>\u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u00eam kinh nghi\u1ec7m cho m\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n nh\u00e9:<\/p>\n

3 \u0111i\u1ec1u cha m\u1eb9 Nh\u1eadt tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i tr\u00e1nh khi d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n

D\u1ea1y con<\/strong> t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp lu\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 Nh\u1eadt B\u1ea3n. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 Nh\u1eadt d\u00e0nh g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 th\u1eddi gian \u1edf nh\u00e0 ch\u0103m lo vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecd thay con l\u00e0m t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9.<\/p>\n

\"D\u1ea1y<\/p>\n

\u201cM\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng b\u00ed quy\u1ebft d\u1ea1y con t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 Nh\u1eadt lu\u00f4n ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn l\u1eafng nghe \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u con.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

C\u00e1c em b\u00e9 Nh\u1eadt B\u1ea3n ngay t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1eadc l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9<\/strong> d\u1ea1y cho c\u00e1c k\u0129 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n nh\u1ea5t nh\u01b0: t\u1ef1 th\u1ee9c d\u1eady v\u00e0o bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng, t\u1ef1 \u0111i b\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng, t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m c\u00e1c c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u1ec7 sinh c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n\u2026.<\/p>\n

Cha m\u1eb9 Nh\u1eadt d\u1ea1y con t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp<\/strong> t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c r\u1ea5t \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 l\u1eafng nghe, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng con.<\/p>\n

Trong cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch \u201cCha m\u1eb9 Nh\u1eadt d\u1ea1y con t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp\u201d, t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 Sugahara Yuko \u0111\u00e3 chia s\u1ebb 66 b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc gi\u00fap con t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp b\u1eb1ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 Nh\u1eadt. Trong \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 Nh\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0m khi mu\u1ed1n h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh th\u00f3i quen t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp cho con. D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 v\u1eady:<\/p>\n

1. Kh\u00f4ng d\u00f9ng t\u1eeb ra l\u1ec7nh v\u00e0 c\u1ea5m \u0111o\u00e1n v\u1edbi con<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n

Cha m\u1eb9 Nh\u1eadt<\/strong> th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u r\u1ea5t r\u00f5 r\u1eb1ng, nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cha m\u1eb9 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nhi\u1ec1u t\u1eeb mang t\u00ednh kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c th\u00ec s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. V\u00e0 khi \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng y\u00eau v\u00e0 \u201ckh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n\u201d<\/strong> m\u00ecnh. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb b\u1ecb cha m\u1eb9 d\u00f9ng nhi\u1ec1u t\u1eeb mang t\u00ednh ph\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ecbnh, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd gh\u00e9t b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, cho r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 k\u1ebb y\u1ebfu h\u00e8n.<\/p>\n

T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 Sugahara Yuko ch\u1ec9 r\u00f5 trong cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch \u201cCha m\u1eb9 Nh\u1eadt d\u1ea1y con t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp<\/strong>\u201d c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh r\u1eb1ng, \u0111\u1ec3 cha m\u1eb9 h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb ra l\u1ec7nh th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 luy\u1ec7n cho tr\u1ebb h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh th\u00f3i quen t\u1ef1 gi\u00e1c, b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t n\u1ebfp sinh ho\u1ea1t gia \u0111\u00ecnh ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p, t\u1ea1o cho tr\u1ebb th\u00f3i quen sinh ho\u1ea1t khoa h\u1ecdc, \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng quy \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng trong nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n ghi nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7 nh\u1eefng quy \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec1 ra\u2026<\/p>\n

B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb c\u00e1i n\u00e0o nguy hi\u1ec3m kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea1m v\u00e0o, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang g\u1ea7n tr\u1ebb. V\u1edbi nh\u1eefng v\u1eadt nguy hi\u1ec3m nh\u01b0 dao k\u00e9o h\u00e3y d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb c\u00e1ch s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng, \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi t\u1eebng \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i khi tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. Khi cha m\u1eb9 c\u00e0ng d\u1ea1y con nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1c k\u0129 n\u0103ng th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u00ec con s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng t\u1ef1 tin, \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb ng\u1eef ra l\u1ec7nh v\u00e0 c\u1ea5m \u0111o\u00e1n v\u1edbi con.<\/p>\n

2. \u0110\u1eebng y\u00eau con th\u00e1i qu\u00e1<\/span><\/h2>\n

Cha m\u1eb9<\/strong> n\u00e0o c\u0169ng d\u00e0nh t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 cho con, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o l\u00e0 \u201cy\u00eau con th\u00e1i qu\u00e1<\/strong>\u201d? Trong cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch \u201cCha m\u1eb9 Nh\u1eadt d\u1ea1y con t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp<\/strong>\u201d c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 Sugahara Yuko cho r\u1eb1ng, m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n r\u00f5 r\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 \u201cy\u00eau con th\u00e1i qu\u00e1<\/strong>\u201d l\u00e0 c\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u00edt cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u201ct\u1ed9i nghi\u1ec7p<\/strong>\u201d khi th\u1ea5y con ph\u1ea3i \u201ch\u1ee9ng ch\u1ecbu<\/strong>\u201d nh\u1eefng k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 do ch\u00ednh h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a con g\u00e2y ra.<\/p>\n

\"D\u1ea1y<\/p>\n

\u201cTin t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ec3 con c\u00f3 th\u1eadt nhi\u1ec1u tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m l\u00e0 b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc d\u1ea1y con t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3.\u201c<\/em><\/p>\n

H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e0nh l\u00f2ng \u0111\u1ee9ng nh\u00ecn con m\u00ecnh g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng gi\u01a1 tay ra c\u1ee9u gi\u00fap, ho\u1eb7c vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ee9ng nh\u00ecn khi con tr\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1eadt l\u00e0 t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i.<\/p>\n

T\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u00e1i qu\u00e1 \u0111\u00f3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c can thi\u1ec7p qu\u00e1 \u0111\u00e0 v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng sinh ho\u1ea1t h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a con. Nhi\u1ec1u cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i \u1edf vi\u1ec7c can thi\u1ec7p v\u00e0o sinh ho\u1ea1t h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y m\u00e0 c\u00f2n g\u00e2y \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a con, \u00e9p con ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m theo \u00fd m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 bao b\u1ecdc th\u00e1i qu\u00e1 \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u1ebft ch\u1ebft tinh th\u1ea7n t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp c\u1ee7a con m\u00e0 c\u00f2n khi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb tr\u1edf n\u00ean y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i, lu\u00f4n b\u1ecb t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 chi ph\u1ed1i, s\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 \u00f4m l\u1ea5y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng trong m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i.<\/p>\n

3. L\u00e0m thay con ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 l\u00e0m h\u1ea1i con<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n

Cha m\u1eb9 Nh\u1eadt<\/strong> quan \u0111i\u1ec3m r\u1eb1ng, nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong s\u1ef1 bao b\u1ecdc gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd b\u1ecb t\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111o\u1ea1t \u0111i v\u00f4 v\u00e0n tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng l\u1ebd b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00fang ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ef1 tr\u1ea3i qua. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi th\u00f4ng qua nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m s\u1ebd \u00edt \u0111i, d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd thi\u1ebfu kinh nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb thi\u1ebfu tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m th\u00ec ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn v\u1edbi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp, b\u1edfi l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3, tr\u1ebb ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft b\u1ecf cu\u1ed9c v\u00e0 n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh.<\/p>\n

Trong cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch \u201cCha m\u1eb9 Nh\u1eadt d\u1ea1y con t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp\u201d, t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 Sugahara Yuko c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 ra nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a \u201ccha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0m thay\u201d nh\u01b0: lu\u00f4n ra l\u1ec7nh, ch\u1ec9 th\u1ecb b\u1eaft tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0y, th\u1ebf kia; \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb (ngay c\u1ea3 khi tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn \u0111\u01b0a cho tr\u1ebb) hay l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng v\u00e0 l\u00e0m theo \u00fd m\u00ecnh (kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m xem tr\u1ebb mu\u1ed1n g\u00ec, d\u00f9 nghe tr\u1ebb n\u00f3i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb)\u2026<\/p>\n

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