{"id":8405,"date":"2019-10-03T04:04:30","date_gmt":"2019-10-03T04:04:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/?p=8405"},"modified":"2019-10-03T04:04:30","modified_gmt":"2019-10-03T04:04:30","slug":"be-hay-ngat-loi-tranh-loi-nguoi-khac","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/be-hay-ngat-loi-tranh-loi-nguoi-khac.html","title":{"rendered":"B\u00e9 hay ng\u1eaft l\u1eddi, tranh l\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9<\/strong> \u0111\u00f4i khi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5, kh\u00f3 x\u1eed v\u00ec b\u00e9 nh\u00e0 m\u00ecnh hay tranh l\u1eddi, ng\u1eaft l\u1eddi m\u00ecnh hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Tuy v\u1eady, h\u00e0nh vi n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 v\u00f4 l\u1ec5, n\u00f3 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh giai \u0111o\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh \u201dc\u00e1i t\u00f4i\u201d c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c u\u1ed1n n\u1eafn k\u1ecbp th\u1eddi th\u00ec c\u0169ng s\u1ebd d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng m\u1eb7t h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf trong giao ti\u1ebfp c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb<\/strong> sau n\u00e0y.<\/em><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t b\u1ef1c m\u00ecnh n\u1ebfu b\u00e9 hay ng\u1eaft l\u1eddi m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu nghe l\u1eddi m\u00ecnh n\u00f3i. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 khi b\u00e9 c\u01b0\u1edbp l\u1eddi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u01a1i nh\u00e0. L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1eeda \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eadt x\u1ea5u n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a b\u00e9?<\/em><\/p>\n

\"B\u00e9
B\u00e9 hay ng\u1eaft l\u1eddi, tranh l\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

H\u00e3y th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n l\u0129nh cha m\u1eb9 qua vi\u1ec7c d\u1ea1y con kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f2n roi.<\/p>\n

Nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n b\u00e9 hay ng\u1eaft l\u1eddi, tranh l\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/strong><\/h2>\n

B\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft<\/strong><\/h3>\n

B\u01b0\u1edbc qua giai \u0111o\u1ea1n h\u1ecdc n\u00f3i (5-7 tu\u1ed5i), b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 am hi\u1ec3u kh\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u chuy\u1ec7n xung quanh cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. V\u1ed1n t\u1eeb v\u1ef1ng v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a b\u00e9<\/strong> c\u0169ng th\u00e0nh th\u1ea1o h\u01a1n. V\u00ec v\u1eady, th\u00f3i quen \u201cc\u01b0\u1edbp l\u1eddi\u201d l\u00e0 khi b\u00e9 mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

B\u00e0y t\u1ecf \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng.<\/strong><\/h3>\n

L\u00fac c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, b\u00e9 th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00f3c l\u00f3c gi\u1eadn d\u1ed7i khi b\u1ea1n y\u00eau c\u1ea7u b\u00e9 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch. Khi b\u00e9 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh h\u01a1n, th\u00f3i quen kh\u00f3c hay \u0103n v\u1ea1 c\u0169ng b\u1edbt d\u1ea7n. Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, b\u00e9 mu\u1ed1n d\u00f9ng s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a l\u1eddi n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 h\u00e9t to l\u00ean, chen ngang v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e0y t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i.<\/p>\n

Khi b\u1ea1n nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf ho\u1eb7c tr\u00e1ch m\u1eafng b\u00e9, b\u00e9 c\u00e0ng t\u1ecf r\u00f5 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch chen ngang v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n nghe n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

Th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi.<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Khi tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a b\u00e9 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f2i b\u1ea1n m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i m\u1edbi ho\u1eb7c xin \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0103n b\u00e1nh trong t\u1ee7 l\u1ea1nh, b\u00e9 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n b\u1ea1n \u0111ang n\u00f3i d\u1edf. B\u00e9 s\u1ebd y\u00eau c\u1ea7u b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u00e0 qu\u00ean \u0111i quy t\u1eafc l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 trong giao ti\u1ebfp.<\/p>\n

L\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c t\u1eadt x\u1ea5u n\u00e0y cho b\u00e9?
\n<\/strong><\/h2>\n

L\u00e0m g\u01b0\u01a1ng cho b\u00e9<\/strong><\/h3>\n

C\u00e1c b\u00e9 \u1edf l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y th\u00edch noi g\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. N\u1ebfu v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean ng\u1eaft l\u1eddi nhau, th\u00ec b\u00e9 c\u0169ng s\u1ebd b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1eaft ngang l\u1eddi b\u00e9 khi b\u00e9 \u0111ang n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y v\u00e0 ng\u1eaft l\u1eddi b\u00e9 (ho\u1eb7c ng\u1eaft l\u1eddi b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai kh\u00e1c), b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y d\u1eebng ngay l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 n\u00f3i: \u201c\u1ed2, m\u1eb9 xin l\u1ed7i v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 ng\u1eaft l\u1eddi con. Con n\u00f3i ti\u1ebfp \u0111i.\u201d Con b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 b\u00e9 c\u00f2n bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn sai l\u1ea7m. B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 b\u00e9 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean nghe th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n \u201cc\u1ea3m \u01a1n\u201d v\u00e0 \u201cxin l\u1ed7i\u201d\u2026<\/p>\n

\"B\u00e9
B\u00e9 hay ng\u1eaft l\u1eddi, tranh l\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Nu\u00f4i con<\/strong> kh\u1ecfe, d\u1ea1y con ngoan c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p d\u1ea1y con th\u00f4ng minh.<\/p>\n

Gi\u1eef b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh<\/strong><\/h3>\n

B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean v\u1ed9i v\u00e3 qu\u00e1t m\u1eafng ho\u1eb7c c\u1ed1 l\u1edbn ti\u1ebfng \u0111\u1ec3 \u00e1t gi\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a b\u00e9. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u1eebng m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1eafng nghe xem b\u00e9 mu\u1ed1n di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec. \u0110\u1ee3i cho b\u00e9 n\u00f3i h\u1ebft c\u00e2u, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean nghi\u00eam t\u00fac n\u00f3i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb \u201cCon xem, m\u1eb9 ch\u01b0a n\u00f3i xong con \u0111\u00e3 chen ngang r\u1ed3i. Nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ngoan v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 con \u1ea1!\u201d.<\/p>\n

Ki\u00ean tr\u00ec r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n tr\u1ebb<\/strong><\/h3>\n

C\u00e1c b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ec3u c\u00e1ch ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3t. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y b\u00e9 ch\u1edd ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u00f3i xong r\u1ed3i m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3t b\u00e9. Tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n: B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y h\u1ecfi b\u00e9 v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u00e0 b\u00e9 th\u00edch nh\u01b0 \u201cT\u1ea1i sao con th\u00edch b\u00fap b\u00ea Baby?<\/em>\u201d B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y nghe th\u1eadt k\u1ef9 c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u00e9. Khi b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i xong b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y h\u1ecfi \u201cCon n\u00f3i xong ch\u01b0a? R\u1ed3i, b\u00e2y gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3t con h\u1ecfi m\u1eb9<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu b\u00e9 c\u1eaft ngang l\u1eddi b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y \u0111\u1eb7t 1 ng\u00f3n tay l\u00ean mi\u1ec7ng b\u00e9 v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c n\u00f3i n\u1ed1t \u00fd c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Sau khi n\u00f3i xong \u201cB\u00e2y gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3t con<\/em>\u201d, v\u00e0 l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e9 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c n\u00f3i. N\u1ebfu b\u00e9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ebf t\u1eafc v\u1edbi c\u00e2u b\u1ea1n h\u1ecfi th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecfi c\u00e2u kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ngay t\u1eeb v\u00e0i l\u1ea7n ch\u01a1i \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, b\u00e9 v\u1eabn ng\u1eaft ngang l\u1eddi b\u1ea1n, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n n\u00ean ki\u00ean tr\u00ec. D\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n b\u00e9 s\u1ebd h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh th\u00f3i quen nghe ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u00f3i xong m\u00ecnh m\u1edbi n\u00f3i ti\u1ebfp ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng tranh l\u1eddi n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

Ng\u1eaft t\u1eebng \u00fd r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng<\/strong><\/h3>\n

S\u1ef1 t\u1eadp trung v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u00e9 c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n, v\u00ec v\u1eady, b\u00e9 r\u1ea5t \u201cs\u1ed1t ru\u1ed9t\u201d n\u1ebfu ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103m ch\u00fa l\u1eafng nghe b\u1ea1n trong m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i. T\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean chia nh\u1ecf c\u00e1c \u00fd v\u00e0 trao \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1edbi b\u00e9. H\u1ebft m\u1ed9t \u00fd, b\u1ea1n t\u1ea1m th\u1eddi d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i, h\u1ecfi chuy\u1ec7n b\u00e9 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi chuy\u1ec3n sang \u00fd ti\u1ebfp theo.<\/p>\n

Ho\u1eb7c g\u1ee3i \u00fd: n\u1ebfu b\u00e9 mu\u1ed1n chia s\u1ebb \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec khi c\u1ea3 nh\u00e0 \u0111ang qu\u00e2y qu\u1ea7n tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n, b\u00e9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u01a1 tay xin \u00fd ki\u1ebfn (gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 vi\u1ec7c b\u00e9 xin ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u \u1edf l\u1edbp n\u1ebfu b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i \u0111i h\u1ecdc).<\/p>\n

N\u00f3i chung \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y, b\u00e9 th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00edch n\u00f3i theo \u00fd m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean v\u00e0 b\u1ed9t ph\u00e1t. B\u1ea1n n\u00ean c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng v\u00e0 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e9 hi\u1ec3u vi\u1ec7c tranh l\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c khi n\u00f3i l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u1ecbch s\u1eed, gi\u00fap b\u00e9 d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n s\u1eeda \u0111\u1ed5i th\u00f3i quen x\u1ea5u n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

Ngu\u1ed3n: meyeucon.org<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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