{"id":8336,"date":"2019-10-03T03:05:45","date_gmt":"2019-10-03T03:05:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/?p=8336"},"modified":"2019-10-03T03:05:45","modified_gmt":"2019-10-03T03:05:45","slug":"day-con-noi-xin-loi-cam-on","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/day-con-noi-xin-loi-cam-on.html","title":{"rendered":"D\u1ea1y con n\u00f3i xin l\u1ed7i, c\u1ea3m \u01a1n"},"content":{"rendered":"

Khi giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd nhanh ch\u00f3ng nh\u1eadn ra s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t trong c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed gi\u1eefa ch\u00fang v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb em Vi\u1ec7t Nam. V\u1edbi tr\u1ebb em n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i, hai t\u1eeb \u201cC\u1ea3m \u01a1n\u201d v\u00e0 \u201cXin l\u1ed7i\u201d d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 c\u00e2u n\u00f3i c\u1eeda mi\u1ec7ng th\u00ec tr\u1ebb em Vi\u1ec7t Nam l\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t xa l\u1ea1 v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1ee3ng ng\u00f9ng khi n\u00f3i hai t\u1eeb n\u00e0y.<\/em><\/p>\n

V\u1eady cha m\u1eb9<\/strong> ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 con tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u00f3i quen n\u00f3i hai t\u1eeb \u201cC\u1ea3m \u01a1n\u201d v\u00e0 \u201cXin l\u1ed7i\u201d?<\/em><\/p>\n

\"D\u1ea1y<\/p>\n

1.T\u1ea1i sao tr\u1ebb con ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i \u201cC\u1ea3m \u01a1n\u201d v\u00e0 \u201cXin l\u1ed7i\u201d m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y c\u00f3 ph\u1ea7n kh\u00e1ch s\u00e1o h\u01a1n ti\u1ebfng Vi\u1ec7t, n\u00ean tr\u1ebb con ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t phong c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1, ch\u1eefng ch\u1ea1c t\u1eeb khi c\u00f2n b\u00e9 v\u00ec ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n ngay t\u1eeb khi l\u1ecdt l\u00f2ng v\u00e0 c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang lu\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nghe nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi quan t\u00e2m ch\u0103m s\u00f3c c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 d\u00e0nh cho nhau; b\u00e9 c\u0169ng c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng nhau. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, b\u1ed1 h\u1ecfi m\u1eb9: \u201cEm y\u00eau, em c\u00f3 kh\u1ecfe kh\u00f4ng?\u201d<\/em>, ho\u1eb7c: \u201cXin l\u1ed7i em y\u00eau, h\u00f4m nay anh v\u1ec1 h\u01a1i tr\u1ec5\u201d.<\/em><\/p>\n

Ngay ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m sau, b\u00e9 c\u0169ng h\u1ecfi m\u1eb9: \u201cM\u1eb9 y\u00eau, m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 kh\u1ecfe kh\u00f4ng?<\/em>\u201d. Kh\u1ecfi ph\u1ea3i di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 l\u00fac \u1ea5y th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, m\u1eb9 qu\u00e1 sung s\u01b0\u1edbng \u00f4m con r\u1ed3i n\u00f3i: \u201cM\u1eb9 kh\u1ecfe, c\u00e1m \u01a1n con\u201d<\/em>\u2026 Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00e0y c\u0169ng h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i \u201cC\u1ea3m \u01a1n\u201d v\u00e0 \u201cXin l\u1ed7i\u201d m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u0111\u00f3!<\/p>\n

Tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i, trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh Vi\u1ec7t Nam, d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ng\u1ea1i trao cho nhau nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, ng\u1ecdt ng\u00e0o nh\u01b0 thu\u1edf m\u1edbi h\u1eb9n h\u00f2. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, kh\u00f4ng \u00edt \u00f4ng b\u1ed1 b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t ng\u1ea1i khi n\u00f3i l\u1eddi \u201cc\u1ea3m \u01a1n\u201d ho\u1eb7c \u201cxin l\u1ed7i\u201d con m\u1ed9t khi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn \u201cph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng\u201d \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, n\u1ebfu tr\u1ebb m\u1eafc l\u1ed7i, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1eaft tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i xin l\u1ed7i. Tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch g\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u00e9p. Khi tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ai \u0111\u00f3 cho qu\u00e0 hay gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, ba m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u1ed9i gi\u1ee5c tr\u1ebb “C\u1ea3m \u01a1n c\u00f4\/ch\u00fa… \u0111i con”<\/em> m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i hay kh\u00f4ng. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady m\u00e0 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y, tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u00f3i quen n\u00f3i \u201cC\u1ea3m \u01a1n\u201d v\u00e0 \u201cXin l\u1ed7i\u201d m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean<\/strong> gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c tr\u1ebb em ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y.<\/p>\n

\"D\u1ea1y<\/p>\n

Ba m\u1eb9 Vi\u1ec7t th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1eaft tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m \u01a1n v\u00e0 xin l\u1ed7i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch g\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u00e9p (\u1ea3nh minh h\u1ecda).<\/em><\/p>\n

2.Cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a con!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Theo c\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia t\u00e2m l\u00fd, tr\u1ebb con r\u1ea5t hay quan s\u00e1t v\u00e0 b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u1ea7n g\u0169i xung quanh m\u00ecnh trong c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i n\u0103ng v\u00e0 c\u01b0 x\u1eed h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 h\u00e3y l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u00e1ng cho con tr\u1ebb noi theo.<\/p>\n

Khi con tr\u1ebb gi\u00fap b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1eebng r\u1ea5t \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u01b0 c\u1ea5t t\u00fai \u0111i l\u00e0m c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 l\u00ean t\u1ee7, ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean h\u00e0o ph\u00f3ng trao cho con y\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u t\u1eeb c\u00f3 c\u00e1nh nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y: \u201cCon y\u00eau, c\u1ea3m \u01a1n con nhi\u1ec1u nh\u00e9\u201d <\/em>ho\u1eb7c: \u201cXin l\u1ed7i con, h\u00f4m nay m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c b\u1eadn \u0111\u1ed9t xu\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0a con v\u1ec1 th\u0103m b\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c\u201d<\/em>, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eddi h\u1ee9a v\u1edbi con.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eebng qu\u00ean r\u1eb1ng, \u201cC\u1ea3m \u01a1n<\/em>\u201d v\u00e0 \u201cXin l\u1ed7i\u201d<\/em> c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng con v\u00e0 d\u1ea1y con t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng cha m\u1eb9; v\u00e0 qua c\u00e1ch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, con c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh h\u01a1n trong giao ti\u1ebfp \u1ee9ng x\u1eed.<\/p>\n

Bi\u1ebft n\u00f3i xin l\u1ed7i, c\u1ea3m \u01a1n gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, t\u1ef1 tin h\u01a1n trong giao ti\u1ebfp \u1ee9ng x\u1eed<\/em><\/p>\n

\u0110\u00f4i khi, r\u00e8n cho con th\u00f3i quen bi\u1ebft n\u00f3i t\u1eeb \u201cC\u1ea3m \u01a1n\u201d v\u00e0 \u201cXin l\u1ed7i\u201d \u0111\u00fang l\u00fac, \u0111\u00fang ch\u1ed7 c\u00f2n kh\u00f3 h\u01a1n d\u1ea1y cho con thu\u1ed9c m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i th\u01a1. Con s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb k\u00e9m th\u00f4ng minh, n\u1ebfu con qu\u00ean m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u th\u01a1.<\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0ng mai n\u00e0y, li\u1ec7u con c\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft n\u00f3i l\u1eddi \u201cXin l\u1ed7i\u201d, \u201cC\u1ea3m \u01a1n\u201d? \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f2n ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u00e1ng cho con tr\u1ebb noi theo m\u1ecdi l\u00fac, m\u1ecdi n\u01a1i. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ba m\u1eb9 nh\u00e9.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Khi giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd nhanh ch\u00f3ng nh\u1eadn ra s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t trong c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed gi\u1eefa ch\u00fang v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb em Vi\u1ec7t Nam. V\u1edbi tr\u1ebb em n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i, hai t\u1eeb \u201cC\u1ea3m \u01a1n\u201d v\u00e0 \u201cXin l\u1ed7i\u201d d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 c\u00e2u n\u00f3i c\u1eeda mi\u1ec7ng th\u00ec tr\u1ebb em Vi\u1ec7t Nam l\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t xa<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3347],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-8336","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-nuoi-day-con"},"amp_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8336","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8336"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8336\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8336"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8336"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8336"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}