{"id":8128,"date":"2019-10-02T09:34:28","date_gmt":"2019-10-02T09:34:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/?p=8128"},"modified":"2020-05-25T03:10:12","modified_gmt":"2020-05-25T03:10:12","slug":"vi-sao-bo-me-nen-om-con-nhieu-hon","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/vi-sao-bo-me-nen-om-con-nhieu-hon.html","title":{"rendered":"V\u00ec sao b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 n\u00ean \u00f4m con nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n?"},"content":{"rendered":"

B\u00e0i vi\u1ebft d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb c\u1ee7a Rachel, m\u1ed9t b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 4 con, chuy\u00ean gia v\u1ec1 nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con<\/a><\/strong> t\u1ea1i M\u1ef9 tr\u00ean trang Amotherfarfromhom v\u1ec1 l\u00fd do b\u1ea1n n\u00ean \u00f4m con nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Khi m\u1eb9 Teresa \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecfi l\u00fac nh\u1eadn gi\u1ea3i Nobel r\u1eb1ng “Ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y h\u00f2a b\u00ecnh th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi”, b\u00e0 n\u00f3i “h\u00e3y v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n”. Trong m\u1ea1ch ngu\u1ed3n \u0111\u00f3, d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 9 l\u00fd do b\u1ea1n n\u00ean \u00f4m con. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch y\u00eau con d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ngay.<\/p>\n

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B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 n\u00ean \u00f4m con nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Nh\u1eefng em b\u00e9 th\u1eadt m\u1ec1m, \u1ea5m<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Tr\u1ebb em, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 c\u00e1c em nh\u1ecf, lu\u00f4n m\u1ec1m m\u1ea1i, ng\u1ecdt ng\u00e0o v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c th\u1eadt tuy\u1ec7t khi \u00f4m \u1ea5p c\u00e1c b\u00e9. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, khi \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ee7 th\u1ec9 v\u1edbi con “m\u1eb9 th\u00edch \u00f4m ‘c\u1ee5c b\u00f4ng’ m\u1ec1m, \u1ea5m n\u00e0y nhi\u1ec1u l\u1eafm”. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 v\u1eady v\u1edbi ai kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n

Khi\u1ebfn con th\u00f4ng minh h\u01a1n<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u cho th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng em b\u00e9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9<\/strong> th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 n\u00e3o l\u1edbn h\u01a1n. V\u1eady ngh\u0129a l\u00e0, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng b\u1ea1n y\u00eau con s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn b\u00e9 th\u00f4ng minh h\u01a1n. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch mang \u0111\u1ebfn cho con t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng an to\u00e0n (\u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u01a1n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i \u00f4m), b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp gi\u00fap con ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

\u00d4m con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m t\u0103ng ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 th\u00f4ng minh (IQ) c\u1ee7a b\u00e9 nh\u01b0ng s\u1ebd gi\u00fap con t\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng t\u1ed1i \u0111a kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. V\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f2n t\u1ed1t cho con v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai sau n\u00e0y khi con tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn.<\/p>\n

Gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng c\u00e1c h\u00f3a ch\u1ea5t c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i<\/strong><\/h2>\n

S\u1ef1 ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng m\u1ed9t h\u00f3a ch\u1ea5t trong n\u00e3o gi\u00fap th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y ni\u1ec1m h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 c\u00e1c ho\u00f3c m\u00f4n gi\u1ea3m stress. \u00c2u y\u1ebfm con s\u1ebd gi\u00fap t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea5n ch\u1ea5n h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nhanh ch\u00f3ng. N\u1ebfu h\u00f4m nay b\u1ea1n v\u1eeba g\u1eb7p chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng vui, \u0111ang m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu con b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u00e1u gi\u1eadn hay hai m\u1eb9 con c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch hay \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o l\u1ea1i b\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed \u1ea5m \u00e1p tr\u00ecu m\u1ebfn trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 \u00f4m con v\u00e0o l\u00f2ng.<\/p>\n

Tr\u1ebb lu\u00f4n mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/strong><\/h2>\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 t\u1eebng th\u1eed \u00f4m m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 th\u00edch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ee5ng ch\u1ea1m v\u00e0o c\u01a1 th\u1ec3? C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c khi \u1ea5y th\u1eadt x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5. Nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i \u00f4m ch\u1eb3ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch truy\u1ec1n t\u1ea3i ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, mu\u1ed1n g\u1ea7n g\u0169i? N\u1ebfu b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ch\u1ea1m v\u00e0o con m\u00ecnh, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y thi\u1ebfu th\u1ed1n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m. N\u1ebfu con b\u1ea1n thi\u1ebfu th\u1ed1n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, ch\u00fang s\u1ebd t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u1edf n\u01a1i kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 ch\u1ed7 \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ec1 an to\u00e0n cho tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i th\u1ec3 d\u1ee5c hay<\/strong><\/h2>\n

M\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y, t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ed1t ch\u00e1y kho\u1ea3ng 400 calo t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c tr\u00f4ng em b\u00e9 18 th\u00e1ng tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. T\u00f4i \u0111u\u1ed5i theo con, nh\u1ea5c l\u00ean r\u1ed3i h\u1ea1 xu\u1ed1ng, tr\u00eau \u0111\u00f9a v\u1edbi con. Vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng kh\u00e1c g\u00ec t\u1eadp \u0111\u1ea5m b\u1ed1c nh\u01b0ng \u00edt ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed5 m\u1ed3 h\u00f4i h\u01a1n v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00eam nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ebfng c\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

C\u00e1i \u00f4m truy\u1ec1n t\u1ea3i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u1ebfu \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o m\u1eaft con, ch\u00fa \u00fd v\u00e0 m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi con, \u00e2u y\u1ebfm con, b\u00e9 s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y vui v\u1ebb, t\u1ef1 tin. Qua nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, con s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. N\u1ebfu con c\u00f3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn \u00f4m b\u00e9 v\u00e0o l\u00f2ng, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y an to\u00e0n khi b\u00ean b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn \u00f4m con ngay c\u1ea3 khi b\u00e9 l\u00e0m v\u1ee1 \u0111\u1ed3 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb, con bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng g\u1eb7p \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec nguy nan khi \u1edf trong m\u00e1i nh\u00e0 c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9. H\u00f3a gi\u1ea3i s\u1ef1 t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn, mong mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tha th\u1ee9 hay h\u00e0n g\u1eafn \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i \u00f4m, v\u00e0 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 con tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft xung \u0111\u1ed9t. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch – trong nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch – kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n d\u00e0nh cho con.<\/p>\n

T\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng s\u1ef1 g\u1eafn b\u00f3<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Khi ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n, nh\u00e0 c\u00f3 kh\u00e1ch hay b\u1eadn t\u00e2m v\u1ec1 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, n\u1ea5u n\u01b0\u1edbng… m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1eafn k\u1ebft l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i l\u00e0 c\u00e1i \u00f4m th\u1eadt ch\u1eb7t. C\u00e1i \u00f4m nh\u01b0 l\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u1ed5 l\u1ed9 r\u1eb1ng “M\u1eb9 s\u1ebd d\u1eebng m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 \u1edf b\u00ean con”. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u00f3 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m v\u00e0 con c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb “ra r\u00eca”, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i \u00f4m s\u1ebd nh\u1eafc b\u00e9 r\u1eb1ng “M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 \u0111ang t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c kh\u00e1c, m\u1eb9 v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng qu\u00ean con \u0111\u00e2u”.<\/p>\n

Cu\u1ed1i m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y d\u00e0i, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i \u00f4m y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111i ng\u1ee7 s\u1ebd nh\u01b0 l\u1eddi th\u1ee7 th\u1ec9 c\u00f9ng con r\u1eb1ng “Sau t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i v\u00e0 l\u00e0m, m\u1eb9 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y v\u00e0 d\u00e0nh h\u1ebft cho con”. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i \u00f4m l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch duy nh\u1ea5t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 n\u00e2ng niu, tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n

Con tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00f4m<\/strong><\/h2>\n

M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf, c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00e2u y\u1ebfm. Tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i. Tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i an to\u00e0n \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00fa ng\u1ee5 khi con c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i hay c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng. Th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 n\u00e0o c\u0169ng th\u1ea5y vi\u1ec7c \u00f4m hay \u00e2u y\u1ebfm con l\u00e0 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y lo ng\u1ea1i s\u1ee3 v\u1ed7 v\u1ec1 nhi\u1ec1u qu\u00e1 con s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 m\u1ec1m y\u1ebfu. Nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ee9ng minh \u0111i\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, v\u00ec v\u1eady b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y c\u1ee9 \u00f4m con.<\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i \u00f4m<\/strong><\/h2>\n

C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng mu\u1ed1n \u00f4m con ch\u00fat n\u00e0o. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00e1u k\u1ec9nh hay \u1ed1m y\u1ebfu v\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng ai c\u00f2n mu\u1ed1n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i \u00f4m. Khi t\u00f4i b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i v\u1edbi con v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9ng \u1edf b\u1edd v\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng gi\u1eef n\u1ed5i b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd \u00f4m con m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i th\u1eadt ch\u1eb7t. Trong tim m\u00ecnh, t\u00f4i t\u1ef1 nh\u1ee7: “Con l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 ph\u00e1t \u0111i\u00ean l\u00ean v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng \u00f4m con, m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd la m\u1eafng con m\u1ea5t”. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con th\u1ebf n\u00e0y: “\u0110\u00f4i khi m\u1eb9 tr\u1edf n\u00ean gi\u1eadn d\u1eef nh\u01b0ng m\u1eb9 v\u1eabn y\u00eau con nhi\u1ec1u l\u1eafm”.<\/p>\n

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