{"id":8104,"date":"2019-10-02T09:15:17","date_gmt":"2019-10-02T09:15:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/?p=8104"},"modified":"2019-10-02T09:15:17","modified_gmt":"2019-10-02T09:15:17","slug":"buon-nhiet-tinh-day-be-som-biet-noi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/buon-nhiet-tinh-day-be-som-biet-noi.html","title":{"rendered":"‘Bu\u00f4n’ nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh d\u1ea1y b\u00e9 s\u1edbm bi\u1ebft n\u00f3i"},"content":{"rendered":"

T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u con m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i l\u1eddi c\u1ea3m \u01a1n ai \u0111\u00f3, thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00ednh t\u00f4i s\u1ebd n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u1ea5y ra \u0111\u1ec3 con tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Charles Tips l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1ef1u bi\u00ean t\u1eadp vi\u00ean m\u1ea3ng khoa h\u1ecdc, t\u1eebng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee7y th\u1ee7, doanh nh\u00e2n, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi c\u0169ng l\u00e0 c\u00e2y b\u00fat vi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u b\u00e0i cho di\u1ec5n \u0111\u00e0n Fatherly. D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a Charles Tips v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y con<\/strong> \u0111\u0103ng tr\u00ean di\u1ec5n \u0111\u00e0n n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

Khi v\u1ee3 t\u00f4i sinh con th\u1ee9 hai, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nghi\u00eam t\u00fac h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1edfi ch\u00fang t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t. V\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9a con \u0111\u1ea7u, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch cho n\u00f3 r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec n\u00ean l\u00e0m ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m. C\u00f2n \u0111\u1ee9a th\u1ee9 hai c\u00f3 l\u1ebd s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng h\u00e9t l\u00ean “Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c”, “Kh\u00f4ng cho ph\u00e9p”…<\/p>\n

Ngay c\u1ea3 khi t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i d\u00f9ng h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t “giam l\u1ecfng” ch\u00fang trong ph\u00f2ng, ch\u00fang c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng kh\u00e1c nhau. \u0110\u1ee9a con \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i ng\u1ed3i trong ph\u00f2ng su\u1ed1t 4 ti\u1ebfng \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3 v\u00e0 ch\u01a1i tr\u00f2 x\u1ebfp h\u00ecnh Lego. “Con c\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n \u0111i ra kh\u00f4ng?”, t\u00f4i h\u1ecfi.<\/p>\n

N\u00f3 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi ch\u1eafc n\u1ecbch: “Kh\u00f4ng \u1ea1! Con v\u1eabn \u1ed5n”.<\/em><\/p>\n

\"Con
Mu\u1ed1n con ngoan th\u00ec \u0111\u1eebng d\u1ea1y ch\u00fang n\u00f3i l\u1eddi c\u1ea3m \u01a1n<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

C\u00f2n \u0111\u1ee9a th\u1ee9 hai th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 b\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ec9nh. M\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i nh\u1ed1t n\u00f3 v\u00e0i l\u1ea7n trong ph\u00f2ng v\u00ec t\u1ed9i qu\u1eady ph\u00e1. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 v\u1eeba m\u1edbi \u0111\u00f3ng c\u1eeda l\u1ea1i th\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 nghe gi\u1ecdng n\u00f3 oang oang: “Con ra ngo\u00e0i b\u00e2y gi\u1edd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng \u1ea1? L\u00e0m \u01a1n \u0111i m\u00e0 b\u1ed1! T\u1eeb gi\u1edd con s\u1ebd ngoan m\u00e0. L\u00e0m \u01a1n \u0111\u1eebng b\u1ecf con l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh m\u00e0!”<\/em>.
\nNh\u01b0ng d\u00f9 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch tr\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c nhau ngay t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u, hai con t\u00f4i v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ngoan v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ee9a con th\u1ee9 ba c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00e1c. L\u00fac n\u00e0o n\u00f3 c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u00f4ng c\u1ee5 non v\u1eady. N\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 ph\u1ea3i theo \u0111\u00fang quy t\u1eafc v\u00e0 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng t\u1ecf \u00fd kh\u00f4ng h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng n\u1ebfu c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng. M\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u00f3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i:
\n“B\u1ed1! B\u1ed1 \u0111ang ch\u1ea1y xe 32 km\/h \u0111\u1ea5y!”<\/p>\n

“\u1eea, sao th\u1ebf con?”<\/p>\n

“T\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed9 cho ph\u00e9p ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 30 km\/h th\u00f4i”<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 sai tr\u00e1i d\u00f9 ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n trong \u0111\u1eddi<\/p>\n

Ba c\u1eadu con trai nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i v\u00e0 v\u1ee3 m\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u1ee9c nh\u1ed1i m\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00e1c ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n trong k\u1ef3 h\u1ecdp ph\u1ee5 huynh. C\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch v\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 con ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi s\u00fang \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i, xem TV qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u hay \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng khu vui ch\u01a1i c\u00f4ng c\u1ed9ng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi theo s\u00e1t. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9<\/strong> th\u1eafc m\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng v\u00ec sao c\u00e1c con c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i ngoan ngo\u00e3n v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ebf.<\/p>\n

\"D\u1ea1y<\/p>\n

V\u00ec sao nh\u1ec9? R\u00f5 r\u00e0ng l\u00e0 t\u00f4i ch\u1eb3ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh ki\u1ec3u m\u1eabu. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i.<\/p>\n

Ghi nh\u1edb<\/strong><\/p>\n

T\u00f4i v\u00e0 v\u1ee3 m\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1eadp m\u1ed9t b\u1ea3n ghi nh\u1edb, ghi l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian, nh\u1eefng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0o m\u00e0 c\u00e1c con m\u00ecnh t\u1ecf ra h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp, h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa. Khi g\u1eb7p v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i t\u1ef1 tha th\u1ee9 cho nhau, kh\u00f4ng khi\u1ec3n tr\u00e1ch, kh\u00f4ng m\u1eafng m\u1ecf. D\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, c\u00e1c con t\u00f4i t\u1ecf ra h\u00f2a nh\u00e3 h\u01a1n b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ch\u00fang \u0111ang l\u00e0m chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec.<\/p>\n

Du l\u1ecbch v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c<\/strong><\/p>\n

B\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb m\u00f9a h\u00e8 n\u0103m 12 tu\u1ed5i, con c\u00e1i t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1eedi \u0111i h\u1ecdc ngh\u1ec1 \u1edf m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 xa nh\u00e0, c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee9a c\u00f2n \u0111i n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i v\u00e0o n\u0103m 14 tu\u1ed5i. L\u0169 tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh khi ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

Vui ch\u01a1i<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u1ede th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng s\u00e2n ch\u01a1i r\u1ea5t tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi ngay ph\u00eda sau nh\u00e0. L\u0169 tr\u1ebb vui ch\u01a1i h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y \u1edf \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ee9 g\u00ec d\u1ea1y ch\u00fang c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng \u1ee9ng x\u1eed x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng vui ch\u01a1i, giao ti\u1ebfp c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

Tr\u1ebb con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u01a1i c\u00f9ng nhau s\u1ebd ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean <\/em><\/p>\n

Phi\u00eau l\u01b0u<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 phi\u00eau l\u01b0u nghi\u00eam t\u00fac ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea1o hi\u1ec3m, b\u1ea5t ch\u1ea5p t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3. Ngay t\u1eeb n\u0103m 13 tu\u1ed5i, t\u00f4i v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p c\u0169 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0a con trai m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o s\u00e2u trong v\u01b0\u1eddn qu\u1ed1c gia Grand Canyon xa h\u01a1n b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai kh\u00e1c.
\nT\u00f4i nh\u1edb \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean r\u1ea5t ch\u00ed l\u00ed c\u1ee7a Josephine Duveneck, ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u00e1ng l\u1eadp ra ng\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00e0 c\u00e1c con t\u00f4i \u0111ang theo h\u1ecdc: “Trong nhi\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, ni\u1ec1m tin ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0o chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng s\u1ebd k\u00e9o th\u00eam m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ra kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh”.<\/em><\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i l\u1eddi c\u1ea3m \u01a1n<\/strong><\/p>\n

T\u00f4i t\u1eebng d\u00e0nh nguy\u00ean m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e2n ph\u00e1t nh\u1eefng chi\u1ebfc \u0111\u0129a khuy\u1ebfn m\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t c\u1eeda h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ebfn tay nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb. C\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3 300 b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 n\u00f3i \u0111i n\u00f3i l\u1ea1i y nguy\u00ean m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u th\u1ebf n\u00e0y v\u1edbi con m\u00ecnh: “Con n\u00f3i g\u00ec v\u1edbi ch\u00fa \u1ea5y \u0111i ch\u1ee9!”. “C\u1ea3m \u01a1n ch\u00fa!”, nh\u1eefng c\u00f4 b\u00e9, c\u1eadu b\u00e9 l\u1eafp b\u1eafp n\u00f3i ra c\u00e2u \u1ea5y m\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng th\u00e8m nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o m\u1eb7t t\u00f4i m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n.<\/p>\n

Tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y r\u1ea5t l\u00e2u, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng th\u1ec1 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng d\u1ea1y con m\u00ecnh di\u1ec5n tr\u00f2 h\u1ec1 \u1ea5y. T\u00f4i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u con m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i l\u1eddi c\u1ea3m \u01a1n ai \u0111\u00f3. Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00ednh t\u00f4i thay m\u1eb7t c\u00e1c con m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u1ea5y ra. Con tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 gi\u00e1c l\u00e0m theo. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n \u00e9p ch\u00fang ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Khi l\u00ean 5, l\u00ean 6 tu\u1ed5i, tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ef1 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ch\u1eb3ng c\u1ea7n t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i chen v\u00e0o nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf, ch\u00fang c\u0169ng s\u1ebd n\u00f3i ra c\u00e2u c\u1ea3m \u01a1n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u00e0nh th\u1ef1c t\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1y l\u00f2ng nh\u1ea5t. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0: \u0110\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i c\u00e2u c\u1ea3m \u01a1n.<\/p>\n

(Theo VNE)<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u con m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i l\u1eddi c\u1ea3m \u01a1n ai \u0111\u00f3, thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00ednh t\u00f4i s\u1ebd n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u1ea5y ra \u0111\u1ec3 con tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng. Charles Tips l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1ef1u bi\u00ean t\u1eadp vi\u00ean m\u1ea3ng khoa h\u1ecdc, t\u1eebng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee7y th\u1ee7, doanh nh\u00e2n, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":8106,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3347],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-8104","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-nuoi-day-con"},"amp_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8104","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8104"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8104\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/8106"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8104"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8104"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8104"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}