{"id":8051,"date":"2019-10-02T08:40:11","date_gmt":"2019-10-02T08:40:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/?p=8051"},"modified":"2019-10-02T08:40:11","modified_gmt":"2019-10-02T08:40:11","slug":"khi-con-yeu-cai-lai-bo-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/khi-con-yeu-cai-lai-bo-me.html","title":{"rendered":"Khi con y\u00eau c\u00e3i l\u1ea1i b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9"},"content":{"rendered":"

D\u00f9 con b\u1ea1n 3 tu\u1ed5i hay 13 tu\u1ed5i, \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i ch\u00fa \u00fd khi con c\u00e3i l\u1ea1i n\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n con \u201ct\u00e2m ph\u1ee5c kh\u1ea9u ph\u1ee5c\u201d.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

C\u1ea9n th\u1eadn v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh<\/h3>\n

Khi con c\u00e3i l\u1ea1i b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9<\/strong>, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean b\u1ea1n n\u00ean ch\u00fa \u00fd l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, b\u1edfi h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m r\u1ea1n n\u1ee9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 con. Qu\u00e1 xu\u1ec1 x\u00f2a, con s\u1ebd l\u1ea1i ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi \u0111\u00e1ng lo ng\u1ea1i. Qu\u00e1 nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc, con s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda giao ti\u1ebfp gi\u1eefa m\u1eb9 con b\u1ecb \u0111\u00f3ng l\u1ea1i. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n h\u00e9t l\u00ean \u201cSao con d\u00e1m? M\u1eb9 l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a con c\u01a1 m\u00e0?\u201d th\u00ec t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 c\u00e0ng th\u00eam t\u1ec7 m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.
\nTr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n sau, khi c\u1ea3 hai c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1edbt n\u00f3ng gi\u1eadn.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y con<\/strong> th\u00f4ng minh. Sau \u0111\u00f3, \u0111i ra ngo\u00e0i m\u1ed9t l\u00fac ho\u1eb7c \u0111i sang ph\u00f2ng kh\u00e1c, n\u1ebfu hai m\u1eb9 con \u0111ang \u1edf ch\u1ed1n c\u00f4ng c\u1ed9ng, b\u1ea3o v\u1edbi con r\u1eb1ng cu\u1ed9c tranh lu\u1eadn s\u1ebd t\u1ea1m d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i, gi\u1edd ch\u00fang ta v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3. Khi \u0111\u00f3 con s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00e3i l\u1ea1i b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9<\/strong> n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

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X\u1eed l\u00fd khi con c\u00e3i l\u1ea1i b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

X\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n<\/h3>\n

C\u00e3i l\u1ea1i lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a con, v\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 con \u0111ang g\u1eb7p r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng, \u0111ang b\u1ee9c x\u00fac v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, \u0111ang b\u1ecb stress v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1ng b\u00e0i v\u1edf \u1edf nh\u00e0, v\u00e0 con tr\u00fat gi\u1eadn b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch c\u00e3i l\u1ea1i b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9<\/strong> b\u1edfi c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u201cm\u1ee5c ti\u00eau an to\u00e0n\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00fat gi\u1eadn. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, h\u00e3y gi\u1eef b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0 t\u00ecm cho ra g\u1ed1c g\u00e1c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu b\u1ef1c t\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a con. L\u1ea7n cho ra \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed1i v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta x\u1eed l\u00fd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u.<\/p>\n

Gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch v\u1edbi con \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c<\/h3>\n

Khi c\u00f4\/c\u1eadu b\u00e9 ngoan ngo\u00e3n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u1ed7ng nhi\u00ean h\u00e9t l\u00ean: \u201cM\u1eb9 \u0111\u1eebng c\u00f3 r\u00e1ch vi\u1ec7c n\u1eefa!\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t y\u00eau c\u1ea7u n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 con \u0111ang l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i c\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 con \u0111\u00e3 nghe th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 s\u1eafc th\u00e1i c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, h\u00e3y gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u00e0 d\u1ee9t kho\u00e1t v\u1edbi con v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00f9ng c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng. N\u00f3i v\u1edbi con r\u1eb1ng, s\u1ebd l\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ebfu con n\u00f3i l\u00e0 con \u0111ang b\u1ef1c m\u00ecnh, con \u0111ang m\u1ec7t, ho\u1eb7c con kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u00e0o l\u00fac n\u00e0y. Nh\u01b0ng g\u00e0o l\u00ean theo ki\u1ec3u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o m\u1eb9 \u0111i \u0111i l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n

Ch\u1ec9 r\u00f5 h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3<\/h3>\n

M\u1ed9t khi b\u1ea1n th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c h\u00e0nh vi v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i n\u00e0o l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch \u0111\u00e1ng, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 cho con bi\u1ebft s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 n\u00e0o n\u1ebfu con v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua ranh gi\u1edbi \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u1ec9 r\u00f5 nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t, v\u00e0 n\u00f3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u1edbi con, \u0111\u1ec3 con kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng khi ph\u1ea3i l\u00e3nh ph\u1ea1t sau n\u00e0y. V\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n, theo \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00f9ng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ec9 ra.<\/p>\n

L\u00e0m g\u01b0\u01a1ng cho con<\/h3>\n

Vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m g\u01b0\u01a1ng cho con \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00ecnh c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh vi l\u00e0 h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c quan tr\u1ecdng. B\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 \u1edf nh\u00e0. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb 5 tu\u1ed5i nh\u00e0 b\u1ea1n nghe l\u1ecfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch h\u1eb1n h\u1ecdc v\u1edbi ch\u1ed3ng, th\u00ec b\u00e9 s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng, s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec sai khi c\u01b0 x\u1eed v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 b\u1ea1n, theo c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3. V\u1eady n\u00ean, h\u00e3y c\u01b0 x\u1eed, n\u00f3i n\u0103ng v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 khi con b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u1edf \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Khen ng\u1ee3i h\u00e0nh vi \u0111\u00fang<\/h3>\n

Th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t khi con th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, thay v\u00ec lu\u00f4n ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch h\u00e0nh vi x\u1ea5u. Khi con n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n theo c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, h\u00e3y khen ng\u1ee3i con. N\u00f3i v\u1edbi con r\u1eb1ng: \u201cM\u1eb9 th\u00edch c\u00e1i c\u00e1ch con \u0111\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3t m\u00ecnh r\u1ed3i m\u1edbi n\u00f3i\u201d, hay \u201cCon \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t khi th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u0111i\u1ec1u con ngh\u0129 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng cao gi\u1ecdng l\u00ean\u201d. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn con c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng b\u1ed1 v\u00e0 m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 ghi nh\u1eadn c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1ed1t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh!<\/p>\n

Tr\u00ean \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft chia s\u1ebb gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft khi con c\u00e3i l\u1ea1i b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9<\/strong>. Ngo\u00e0i ra, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tham kh\u1ea3o th\u00eam c\u00e1c b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con<\/strong> t\u1ea1i Kyna.vn \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y con \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1ch nh\u00e9 b\u1ea1n. Ch\u00fac b\u1ea1n nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng !<\/p>\n

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D\u00f9 con b\u1ea1n 3 tu\u1ed5i hay 13 tu\u1ed5i, \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i ch\u00fa \u00fd khi con c\u00e3i l\u1ea1i n\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n con \u201ct\u00e2m ph\u1ee5c kh\u1ea9u ph\u1ee5c\u201d. C\u1ea9n th\u1eadn v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh Khi con c\u00e3i l\u1ea1i b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean b\u1ea1n n\u00ean ch\u00fa \u00fd l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":8052,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3347],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-8051","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-nuoi-day-con"},"amp_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8051","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8051"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8051\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/8052"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8051"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8051"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kynaforkids.vn\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8051"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}